Sandy Weiner - Dating Coach - Stamford, CT
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Sandy Weiner (ACC,CPCC)

Dating Coach

I'm the Chief Love Officer and founder of Last First Date. I believe it's never too late to find the love of your life. That's why I'm devoted to helping women and men over 40 break old love habits and achieve healthy, off-the-charts love in the 2nd half of life. You can view my TEDx talk on the biggest mistake women make in dating (hint: I made big mistakes so you don't have to).

I want to help you find love. I understand that online dating can feel like it's filled with trolls and losers. But it's also filled with wonderful people. You just need the tools to help you find them. So, don't give up hope. Get focused, learn new skllls, and break bad dating habits so you can find the love of your life. 

Stay inspired by tuning into Last First Date Radio, an exciting show about attracting and sustaining healthy relationships in midlife. Don't you want to go on your Last First Date?

Contact me for your complimentary consult today to learn more about what dating coaching program will suit your needs:

The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

When I got divorced after my 23-year marriage, I had no idea how to date. The last time I dated, I was wearing mini skirts and platform heels. Plus, my self-esteem needed a kick in the butt! I discovered that without self-love, I'd never attract a high-value man. Part of my healing process came through the coursework for my life coach certification. I took baby step after baby step, building my confidence and learning to set clear boundaries with others. I yearned to make a bigger impact on the lives of others in the second half of my life. And I wanted to stop playing small.

Perhaps you've experienced some of the same fears and challenges I did. I became a dating coach to help people like you learn to love themselves enough to attract the highest quality partner. I'm thrilled to have transformed the love lives of thousands of women (and some men) through my coaching programs, workshops, and articles. I believe that when you live your most vibrant and authentic life, you’ll attract your most loving and aligned partner. You need to be the love to attract the love you want. If you’re bringing negativity and stale ways of relating to men, you’ll get the same results you’ve always been getting. When you change your actions and thoughts, you will magnetize the high value partner you deserve. I want to help you attract the best relationship of your life!

Coaching is based on accountability and consistency. New habits yield more powerful results, real shifts that you can sustain. We’ll work together to identify your past dating and relationship roadblocks. You’ll learn how to shift out of unsuccessful mindsets to develop new habits that will make you quite irresistible! Through this deep inner work, you’ll gain clarity about the most dignified dating and relationship practices. You’ll soon be ready to unveil your best, most attractive self and attract your best partner for a lasting, loving relationship.

Don't you want to go on your LAST FIRST DATE?

Sandy Weiner

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Fee Range:

Over $120 per session

Sandy Weiner

Quick Stats

Main Specialty:

Dating/Being Single Support

Empowering Women

Online Dating



Time in Practice:

6-10 years

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All areas, please inquire

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Articles by Sandy Weiner
Dating Over 50

3 Post-Divorce Red Flags That Say He's Not BF-Material (Yet)

You met a man who seems like a keeper — aside from his ongoing dates in divorce court.


How To Write Online Dating Emails That Get You To The Next Step

There's an art to writing online dating emails that will get him to call you. Here's how!

Dating: The Right Time To Cancel Your Online Dating Profile

Help! How Do I Know If He's Just Not That Into Me?

He's logged into his online dating profile. Does that mean he's not that into you?

Dating: Are You Wasting Your Time With The Wrong Man?

Are You Wasting Your Time With The Wrong Man?

Monitoring the red and yellow flags will help you decide if you want to continue dating.

Come Hither

The Cost of Staying With a Toxic Bad Boy

The sex might be off-the-charts, but the toxic bad boy may break your heart. Don't let him.

Sandy Weiner

All Specialties

Communication Problems, Conflict Management, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Empowering Women, Online Dating, Self-Esteem