Don't hold back, shop 'til you drop ... as long as you spend that cash the "right" way.
When you need a little lift, do you like to go shopping?
Oh wait … or do you feel guilty shopping because it's bad ... consumerism is wasteful ... others aren't as fortunate as you ... blah blah blah ... and other reasons from a never ending list?
Well, here’s some news for you: Money can buy happiness!
- buy experiences
- use cash to improve how you spend time
- get yourself treats
- pay now or ahead of time
- be generous — share it.
Frankly, I agree with all of the above!
But, I think there's more to the "money CAN buy happiness" theory than the aforementioned.
There's also the pure joy of shopping to celebrate yourself!
Don't you find it so gratifying when you buy the perfect item to express who you are and then wear it to exclaim that to the world? Or, winning a challenge and buying a symbolic reminder to look at, each morning, as a reminder of your victory and motivation for the next big win?
Are those shallow purchases? Quite the opposite. Those purchases are tools that reinforce your deepest desires and support you in doing your boldest work within the world.
Okay, so maybe you don’t need to spend money on this. You can also find non-monetary ways to acknowledge, celebrate and represent your life events. I'm all for that, too.
However, if you do choose to spend a bit of cash, enjoy it! Don't feel guilty!
Buying automatically to numb or avoid life is not the way to shop, and it's probably what gave spending money a bad reputation! Racking up debt or filling our closets to capacity with things we don't need, use, or enjoy is pointless and leads us to feel depressed rather than delighted. There's no value in that!
So here are some amazing ways to spend money gleefully (plus some fun ideas to still get a kick if you're ever a bit short on celebratory cash):
1. Fund your liberation
When you have cash on reserve, you're free to take advantage of spontaneous opportunities that arise — like attending a niece’s birthday party unexpectedly or showing up to celebrate an old friend’s achievement. Spending your available cash on what's important to you (and avoiding what isn't) frees up extra cash to save for future freedom.
Don't have enough cash yet? Practice spending energy on what's important to you and creatively make your presence felt in situations when you can't yet swing buying that plane ticket — make a video for your niece or create a photo book for your friend.
2. Invest in your growth
Maybe there's a course or program that doesn't align with your career path, but you'd really enjoy taking anyway. Without rationalizing whether it's wise to spend money on something you don't "need," invest in nurturing ALL sides of your mind and personality ... simply because you want to!
Until that cash reserve is adequate, explore the possibilities of how you can still broaden your knowledge. Make a list and investigate ways to delve into some of those subjects (watch TED Talks, look for free online classes, or attend interesting MeetUps in your community).
3. Celebrate with symbolism
Buy yourself something just because it speaks to you deeply. Not in a "must have it because it's the next new thing" way, but because it reflects an aspect of your inner being and makes you feel stronger, happier, smarter or better. Buy a symbol to remind yourself of something important you did or something important you're creating.
No cash to indulge yet? Go for a walk and find something in nature that speaks to you. Either collect it or take a picture to display. Capture the moment, as well as, the meaning and treasure it each day.
It’s obvious that it isn't cash itself that is making us smile — the wealth is in what cash provides.
Hoarding it and not using it to enjoy your life short changes you just as much as overspending. So think about what's important to you — spontaneity? Philanthropy? Adventure? Creativity? From there, decide how to use and enjoy those riches of yours!
Jan Bowen is a certified thought leader, helping her clients facilitate their life more joyfully and easily. Jan is passionate about working with proactive individuals who are thoughtful leaders in their own life, committed to living their vision and life purpose. If you are ready to embrace your vision, Jan invites you to connect privately with her at firstname.lastname@example.org to discuss partnering on your next steps forward.