3 Brutally Honest Reasons You Don't Attract Quality Men

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The TRUTH About Why You Aways Date The Wrong Men
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Use these 3 steps to raise your attraction factor with quality men.

The biggest problem modern relationships have is equality. We want everything to be fair and 50/50. When we fight, we'd rather be right than happy. No one wants to take one for the team.

Most relationships end over small arguments or disagreements where no one is willing to be the bigger person and come back to the table.

Being right can be deadly to relationships, especially if your friends agree with you. We all have wounds, we all get triggered for seemingly no reason. This is a given for a relationship.

We come to relationships to heal, to expose what's inside of us and be loved anyway.

Unconditional love means you have a right to be, feel, think and share your way, and while I may not agree with you, I love you enough to come back to the table and negotiate with you regardless of how hurt or right I maybe.

If you're tired of non-committal men you may want to investigate how to create attraction and polarity. The easiest way is to read my book, A Life Of Love. In the meantime, here are 3 reasons why you date the wrong plus ways to start attracting the right men in your life:

1. You act like you don't need men.


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Stop insisting on paying and splitting checks and opening your own door and generally letting men know you don't need them.

2. You work too much.


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If you haven't had a feeling for a while because you've been too busy working, this may very well be the problem. Practice noticing and expressing two things: what feels good and what doesn't feel good.

3. You have trouble receiving love.


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If you're only comfortable giving and having things be equal, there will be no place for a man in your life. Men fall in love when they give. When a man feels needed it creates attraction and polarity.

Practice receiving concretely (i.e. dinners, flowers, gifts) and giving back abstractly by saying "thank you". That's it!

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