10 Ways to Test a Woman to See if She’s Interested in Dating You

10 Ways to Test a Woman to See if She’s Interested in Dating You

10 Ways to Test a Woman to See if She’s Interested in Dating You


Men want surefire ways to know whether or not a woman is interested in them. Honestly, it’s pretty easy if you’re paying attention. Women know damn near instantly whether they like a guy and give off pretty clear signs. Unlike men, most women also don’t waste time trying to fake it or hide the fact that they like you. They will likely shower you with attention and jump at opportunities to spend time with you. If, for some reason, you’re not able to pick up on these signs or perhaps want to put a new lady in your life to the test, here are 10 things you can do to see if she truly is interested in you:

1  Send her a vague text message such as, “Hey, Lisa.”  If she responds by saying “Hey” in return, she’s probably not interested. However, if she responds in greater detail by saying something like “Hey, Brian!  How are you?” or “I was just thinking about you,” chances are, she is. If a woman likes you, the fact that you reached out tends to be enough. She will take it and run with it.

2 Another text test: Send her a message in the middle of the day saying something like, “I hope you’re having a great day” or “I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you.” If she responds with something like, “I’ve been thinking about you, too,” she’s interested. If she responds with, “That’s sweet/nice”  or “Thanks,” consider this the kiss of death. Note that a woman loves to receive these types of messages…from the guy she’s interested in. They will make her day. Unfortunately, when it comes from a guy she’s not into, it’s just lame.

3 Call her during a time you know she might be busy with something, like watching her favorite show. If she stops to talk to you, she’s interested. If she tells you “Love & Hip Hop” is on and she’ll call you back, she still might be interested. But, it’s probably on a lower scale. If a woman likes a guy, her show can likely wait. Keep in mind that if she doesn’t call back at all, she is definitely not interested.

4 Ask her out on a spur-of-the-moment date, such as going for coffee on a weeknight. If a woman is interested in a guy, she likely can’t wait to see him again and will jump at the opportunity to hang out, even if it’s not a planned date. If she says no or seems to need convincing to go, she’s probably not interested.

5 If you typically are the one to call or reach out to her, stop. Give it a day or two. If she doesn’t call or text you, she’s not interested. Granted, people can fall into a routine. If a woman is used to you initiating contact, she may simply go along with that. However, if she fails to wonder what happened or doesn’t attempt to pick up the phone to see what’s going on, you’re a non-factor. Sorry.

6 Mention another woman. Be careful with this one. You don’t want to give off the idea that you’re trying to make her jealous. However, you’re letting her know in a subtle way that other women are interested. You might say something like “Me and my girl Nina are going go watch the game at Buffalo Wild Wings.”  If she doesn’t reply with some follow-up questions to find out who this chick is and the status of your relationship, she isn’t interested. The only time a woman doesn’t care about other women in your life is when she has no desire to be with you herself.

7 Find out if her friends know about you. You can say something like, “So, what did your friends say when you told them about me?” Guys, you can safely assume that if a woman is interested in you, her friends know about it. If you haven’t been brought up, you don’t really exist.

8 Pay attention to her body language when you are out together. If she smiles, laughs, flirts and easily engages in conversation, chances are she’s interested. If she’s comfortable with you holding her hand or putting your arm around her, she’s interested. If she’s tense, distracted, guarded or flat, she probably just didn’t have anything better to do at that time.

9 Tell her you might have to cancel or make changes to a date you’ve scheduled. If she’s interested, she will show genuine disappointment or concern. If she seems unbothered, chances are she wasn’t excited about going out with you in the first place. If she’s interested, she’ll likely be willing to adjust the plans so that she can see you. If not, she may simply take it as an opportunity to get out of the date.

10 Invite her to an event or activity you’re involved in, such as your weekend flag football game. If she’s interested, she will show up and likely be enthusiastic about it…even if she’s not interested in it herself. If not, she won’t waste her time. A woman who’s interested in you will love that you’re involving her in something you enjoy.

Keep in mind, guys, that there are always extenuating circumstances such as busy lives, crises and stress. However, if a woman likes you, she will at least be willing to communicate with you and do things so that you know that she is interested, even if she isn’t always available. Under normal circumstances, this list is a great way to find out if the woman you like actually likes you, too.  If she doesn’t, don’t take it too hard. Simply find a lady worth the time and energy you’re willing to spend. Best of luck!

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This article was originally published at How To Get The Woman of Your Dreams . Reprinted with permission from the author.
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