Warning: Do not read this article if you do not want to know how men truly think and feel.
There are some women who are so beautiful on the outside but so ugly on the inside that it actually makes them unattractive. They believe that the man of their dreams (MOYD) should cater to them but do not believe they should have to cater to the MOYD. That just kills the love song. They do not feel they should cook, clean or do anything for their man. For instance, when the MOYD finishes making love, he wants something to eat, and we are not speaking of oodles of noodles. He wants a meal. But she cannot cook. Her sole basis for existence is her vain beauty.
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Ugly ways kill beauty. It matters not how much makeup she puts on her face. It cannot hide the ugliness on the inside.
Here are the 9 reasons men cheat on beautiful women:
1. She is ugly on the inside.
Even the ugly or not-so-attractive woman can be the most beautiful woman, because true beauty comes from within. This is one reason why so many men go back and forth from the beautiful woman to the woman who is not as attractive but who can take care of him and love him the way he needs to and should be loved. It is so confusing. The man is saying to himself, “Suzy has the figure I want, the pretty long hair, beautiful skin and model-like features, but her attitude sucks and she does not want to do anything for me and yet expects everything from me.”
2. The sex is not good.
Being beautiful does not make you good in bed. You have to be attentive and still have all the bells and whistles of any other woman.
I am sure you have seen what we often refer to as mismatched couples, consisting of one who is gorgeous and another who is not so attractive. Everybody wants to know: Why and how did this happen? Well, if you had enough courage to stop them and ask why, she would say, for starters, “He makes real, passionate love to me, which makes him beautiful in my eyes.”
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3. She has very few skills besides looking beautiful.
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Beautiful women are often not completely functional human beings. If you cannot cook, clean or handle core responsibilities by the age of 25, you have no skills to keep the MOYD. Beauty may have caught the MOYD’s attention and gotten your foot in the door, but it will not create a long-lasting, happy relationship.
You have to know how and have the willingness to take care of your man if your plan is to keep him interested in you. It’s the little things that count. If he opens your car door, do you reach over the seat and at least try to open his door? Or are you the type that only wants to spend his hard-earned money but not your own? This selfish attitude is not attractive to any decent man.