Why You Should Date Your Complement, Not Your Clone [EXPERT]

**Don't miss your chance to chat with Evan on the YourTango Facebook page this Thursday, October 6th at 2pm ET. Find out more about the event and RSVP here!** Once upon a time, I received a phone call from an entrepreneur who told me ...

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How Do I Stop A Guy From Shopping Online For Another Woman?

You put your profile online. You weed out the creepy guys and the poor spellers, the stalkers and the old men. The guys who winked and the guys who give their phone number in the first email. And you’re left with a small core of decent men. You write back. You flirt. You exchange private emails. You ...

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Why Would He Never Ask Me Out Again When We Had Chemistry?

On the first page of my book, “Why He Disappeared,” I tell a story of my first online date back in the late 90’s. We ate, we drank, we laughed, we got deep, we closed the bar, we made out in the parking lot. And I never saw her again. That was a great lesson in reading too much into a ...

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How Do You Let Someone Know You Don’t Want A Second Date?

To tackle the dilemma of how to let someone know you’re not interested, I decided to get all Elizabeth Barrett Browning on you: How do I blow off thee? Let me count the ways. I blow off thee for weight and height. For claims of age that don’t seem right. For lack of chemistry and failure to praise. I blow ...

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Love Doesn’t Happen When You Least Expect It

If you were on your deathbed, would you whisper to your closest friend, "Now that I look back on my life, I wish I worked more 12-hour-days." If so, keep doing what you're doing. If not, it's time to get a career that doesn't require such slavish devotion. You may have a job, you may have money, but you ...

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