In this app-driven world, people often ask me, how do we rekindle romance? He’s about to have an affair, she’s about to leave him high and dry, and they can’t even find time to share hugs at the door when they say good bye for work. Pathetic? Yes. Uncommon? No. So many couples are caught up in the rushing tempo of this e-focused world, looking for OS (optimal sex) and stuck in the hi speed download lane. They long for a new IP (intimate partner) of their dreams, while ignoring the person in front of them at the breakfast nook as they rush out the door to the freeway pace of life. In fact, sex and tender kisses, sweet gentle caressing, even a long sustaining full-body hug takes something that few have a plentiful supply of in their daily to-do lives today: TIME.
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Here are ten immediate suggestions for building your home grown App for “Romance Me!”
1. Make a solid block of time, not just dig around for an end of day last minute snap of your panty rims under the sheets. It’s not that sexy to be tired, drunk, burnt out or in the same shorts you wore to the gym at 5 am that day and expect your honey to want some.
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