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59 Cheeky Turns Ons To Assess What Gets YOU In The Mood

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Love, Sex

Take this arousal assesment to see what gets you all hot and bothered!

Here's a Checklist of 59 Possible Turn On's:

[This is an arousal assessment for men, women and couples developed by Dr. Patti Britton. It is her exclusive intake form for arousal determinants.]

(Place an X or a checkmark beside any that apply)

What turns you on?

  1. ___ Thinking about past lover(s)
  2. ___ Thinking about future lover(s)
  3. ___ Sex with a stranger
  4. ___ Fantasies (with or without acting on them)
  5. ___ Role play (not S&M)
  6. ___ Blind dates (anticipation)
  7. ___ Using a sexual nickname (write it down here!)
  8. ___ Using a sexual nickname for your genitals (write it down here!)
  9. ___ Reading erotica
  10. ___ Writing erotica
  11. ___ Watching porn videos/DVDs
  12. ___ Reading XXX magazines
  13. ___ Watching Internet porn
  14. ___ Paid live erotic entertainment
  15. ___ Emails to your lover
  16. ___ Internet dating
  17. ___ Cybersex
  18. ___ Romantic talk
  19. ___ Dirty talk
  20. ___ Phone sex
  21. ___  A good fight with partner
  22. ___ Dressing up for sex
  23. ___ Strip tease by your partner
  24. ___ Strip tease for your partner
  25. ___ Seeing partner naked
  26. ___ Viewing partner's genitals and/or breasts
  27. ___ Watching your partner masturbate
  28. ___ Masturbating for your partner
  29. ___ Bathing, showering or being in the tub together
  30. ___ Laughter
  31. ___ Giving or getting chocolates
  32. ___ Giving or getting flowers
  33. ___ Drinking or recreational drugs before sex
  34. ___ Food or fine dining
  35. ___ A romantic environment
  36. ___ The smell of your lover (natural or colognes, etc)
  37. ___ Background music playing
  38. ___ Sensual touch
  39. ___ Getting a massage before sex
  40. ___ Giving a massage before sex
  41. ___ Casual hand-holding and affectionate touch
  42. ___ Deep kissing
  43. ___ Breast stimulation
  44. ___ Oral-genital stimulation on partner
  45. ___ Oral-genital stimulation on yourself
  46. ___ Oral-anal stimulation on partner
  47. ___ Oral-anal stimulation on yourself
  48. ___ Penis-in-vagina penetration
  49. ___ Penis-in-anus penetration
  50. ___ Fetish or kink play
  51. ___ BD/DS/SM practices
  52. ___ Going to a swing party or club
  53. ___ Sex toys
  54. ___ Public sex (in cars, etc)
  55. ___ Manual touch on your genitals
  56. ___ Manual touch on your partner's genitals
  57. ___ Feeling love for your partner; feeling loved by your partner
  58. ___ Spiritual union with your sexual partner(s)
  59. ___ Other: (Anything we missed? Write in here; use all the space you need…)

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Dr. Patti Britton is a Clinical Sexologist, Sexuality Educator and Master Sex Coach with top level credentials. As a well-respected pioneer and leader in the field of sexology, she is the author of hundreds of articles, four amazing books, and is former columnist for Penthouse Forum. Dr. Patti is a Your Tango expert, popular speaker, sought-after trainer and workshop leader, blogs on her own websites and hosts over 40 DVDs for women's and couples’s sexual enhancement. 

She has a private practice in Los Angeles and via Skype globally. Dr. Patti is the Co-Founder of SexCoachU, the world's premier training and credentialing institute for sex coaching. Her coaching career was inspired by being in the presence of Thomas Leonard, and her two amazing coaches, Julian Cohen and Cheryl Richardson.

This article was originally published at Reprinted with permission from the author.


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