David M. Matthews - Author, Dating Coach, Relationship Coach, Sex Coach, Speaker/Presenter - Porter Ranch, CA
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Are you irritated by how clueless your man is to your needs?  Are you tired of telling your husband the same thing over and over again, only to have him ignore you?  Are you perturbed by the fact that your boyfriend seems oblivious to even your most obvious feelings and moods?  Do you want to pull your hair out every time you attempt to have a meaningful discussion with your male significant other?  If you answered, “yes,” to even one of these questions, congratulations - you are not alone.  In fact, you are one of millions of women dealing with the frustration of everyday life in a relationship with a man.

So what can you do about it?  If you’re like most women, you talk to your female friends to get their opinions and feedback.  They certainly understand what you’re going through and empathize with your situation.  And their supportive words are very comforting.  They may even offer helpful suggestions of what you can do to improve your relationship.  Unfortunately, following their advice often proves ineffective, or worse, exacerbates an already-uncomfortable situation.  Why?  Because no matter how well-intentioned their guidance may be; no matter how many relationships they have had; no matter how much of an expert they are on how women, think, feel, and behave - they are still women – and therefore justifiably limited in their complete understanding of men (in the same way that men are significantly lacking in their working knowledge of women).  Truly, this expertise about guys is best acquired directly from the most authoritative source on all things male – a man.  After all, nobody can give you the inside story on what makes guys tick better than someone who lives in that world 24/7. 

The problem is, you need to be sure the male advice you’re getting is valid, expert, and agenda-free (not meant to simply entice you into having sex with the “helpful” advisor).  And that’s where I come in.  My name is David M. Matthews, and I am an expert on men and the things they say and do.   I write a popular relationship advice column, privately coach women on dating, sex and relationships, and authored the book, Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think.  Most importantly, however, it is my mission to help women better understand the men in their life, and significantly improve their relationships.  And to prove it, I’ll start by offering you a free report on The 3 Things Men Are REALLY Looking For In A Relationship.

The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

As long as I can remember, female friends, relatives and even strangers I met in line at Target, would solicit my advice on relationship matters.  More often than not, they were confused, frustrated and utterly baffled by how men behaved.  Thus I found myself regularly giving impromptu tutorials on “how men think” and “why they act the way they do.”  And when I ventured into the “entertainment biz” as a writer, producer and composer (“The Young and the Restless, “Mad About You,” “Living Single,” “Half & Half”), I found the women in this field were similarly perplexed and annoyed at the seemingly bizarre way their men’s minds worked.  Regardless of their accomplishments or celebrity status, men remained fundamentally inscrutable and perplexing.   It was as a result of this universal angst and bewilderment (and a little prodding from my wife) that I set out to set the record straight by writing Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider’s Guide to How Men Think.  If after reading it you have additional questions and would like to set up a relationship coaching session, feel free to email me at david@everymanseesyounaked.com.

David M. Matthews

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David M. Matthews

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Main Specialty:

Communication Problems

Couples/Marital Issues

Dating/Being Single Support



Time in Practice:

3-5 years

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Dating Coach

Relationship Coach

Sex Coach


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By Email

Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)

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Articles by David M. Matthews
Butting Heads

Getting Men To Stop "Fixing" Your Emotions

If your guy sees you in distress he wants to make you feel better, even when you just want to vent.


Change Of Heart: Now She Wants Him Back

There's a reason you broke up with your ex. Is there really any benefit to taking a step backwards?

happy couple

Should She Pursue Former Crush...20 Years Later?

After two decades, is the spark still there? And does his patience indicate respect or disinterest?

Sad Dude

Men’s Dirty Little Secrets – Part 2

Your guy's not as much an open book as you think. Here are a few more things he's kept from you.


She Wants To Be More Than ‘Friends With Benefits’

Casual sex was fine at first, but now she wants more. Trouble is, he doesn't. What's a girl to do?

Check Out My New Book
Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think
Employing equal measures of wit and wisdom, ...
By David M. Matthews

David M. Matthews

All Specialties

Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce/Divorce Prevention