How To Attract Men With Your 'IT' Factor

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How To Attract Men With Your 'IT' Factor
Men desire women with the IT factor, but what is it, and how do you know if you have it?

To attract that dream man of yours, you need to become something very special. You need to become "IT."

No, not "IT", the scary clown from the Stephen King film. You need to become Ms. IT, so you can meet Mr. IT. "What are you talking about, David?" you ask. Well, I know who your Mr. IT is. I know the exact kind of dream man you have in mind. Let's be hones — he's a combination of Eric, from The Little Mermaid movie, George Clooney in some of his better movies, and Leonardo Dicaprio in at least half of his movies. 

He has some amazing qualities. He's humble and down to earth like Eric is in The Little Mermaid. He's strong, bold, and confident. He knows exactly what to say to make you feel special. He has a cute shyness and vulnerability to him, but he's not too soft. He's clever, smart, and driven. He's motivated, determined, and passionate about his life. He's the kind of man that knows what he wants, and does whatever it takes to get it.

Do you know what he wants? He wants you!

He wants more than anything in the world to be your man. And you want him to be your man. You long for him because he knows how to kiss you. He knows how to touch you. He understands how important foreplay is to you, and he pays all the attention you need. He listens to your desires, and he makes you feel amazing. He sounds good, doesn't he?

There might be a few things I left off that list, but I’m pretty sure you got the picture. He is a man with "the IT factor". So how on earth do you attract a man with the IT factor? Very simply, you need to become Ms. IT. You need to develop your very own IT factor.

You need to appeal to his mind, body, and soul. You need to turn on your inner radiance. You need to switch on your sexuality. And you need to realize that for him to treat you like a queen, you need to treat him like a king. You need to flirt. You need to show him you want him. Most importantly, you need to let him know he can approach you.

The female IT factor is about keeping your head out your iPhone, and tuning into your own personal energy. It's about creating powerful connections. You need to look at him. You need to flirt with him. You need to eat him up with your eyes. I know how to spot a Ms. IT a mile off. She looks at me with a certain smile and twinkle in her eyes. Men need you to have that IT Factor. If I meet a woman and she doesn't have that sparkle about her, I lose interest. It doesn't matter how attractive she is. If she doesn't have IT, I'm not there.

You need to tune into your female power so you can attract your own Mr. IT, and stop attracting Mr. Not IT At All!

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