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7 Beauty Myths That Are Damaging Your Love Life

Very few things are as confusing as the link between what we think is beautiful, our self-image and our sexuality. What each of us perceives as beautiful or sexy is as varied as what you might eat for dinner. The biggest myth about finding love is that there is some perfect set of rules that leads to success. ...

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Speak Up and Tell Him the Truth!

Speak up, be courageous, use your words and have your voice heard! It is so much easier to just be quiet and keep it all in, but does is really serve you? Expressing yourself and having your voice herd is a right not often used. Saying what you actually think is a way to value who you are and what you stand for, ...

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The Secret To How Italian Women Create A Great First Date

La Bella Figura, translated literally means “the beautiful figure”. It can mean many things but for Italians it is a way of life and it means the way one appears and presents oneself in the world. Italians are very protective of La Bella Figura, they guard it with their lives and would do anything to ...

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Measuring the Seams of your Relationship

In my on going quest for personal growth and my commitment to expanding my consciousness I have been constantly pulled and pushed to challenge myself in looking at how I can shift my perspective. I was having tea with my friend and amazing relationship coach, Orna Walters, not too long ago. We were talking ...

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Patching Things Up

Everyone has had a situation where they have had to rectify or patch things up with a friend, lover, brother/sister or parent. And when we talk about relationships it is all a question of Ego. Will someone let their guard down enough to let their Ego take a hike? We can compromise, negotiate and even give ...

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MY QUESTIONS
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  • You need to add some excitement to your relationship. The kids come first but your relationship is right up there. Create a win/win situation and add small things you can do with her throughout the week that will change the routine. Get a sitter, surprise her, do something! Just because you have kids that doesn't mean you give up your life, make it work so everyone is taken care of and is happy. I am a single mother and I still have a life. Many ask me how I do it, I just say I do. I make it work. If I want or need to go out I plan a play date, sleepover or get a sitter. You both have to be willing to do something to change the status quo. Talk to her about how important the relationship is to you and come up with a strategy. SEE MORE

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  • There is only one thing you can do, make a choice. You either choose to trust him or you don't. If you intent on being with this man you have to make one of these decisions in order to have a happy experience of your relationship with him. If you can't bring yourself to trust him, then you might want to suggest couples counseling. But it is really up to you. SEE MORE

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  • By the way.there are no rules. SEE MORE

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  • How old are you? 6? Put your ego aside and just reach out. She is not a child who needs to learn a lesson nor are you her teacher, you are just 2 people who care about each other and want to be together...I assume. You don't punish people in a relationship, you connect, communicate and create a win/win situation. If you care about her, reach out and just say how silly you both have been and act like civil adults. SEE MORE

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  • Honey, forget about him! If he is doing thing like this he is not committed to you and any excuse he comes up with is just a way to not to have to confront you. MOVE ON! SEE MORE

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Articles by Micaela Passeri
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7 Beauty Myths That Are Damaging Your Love Life

Get the facts on what men really think about women's beauty, weight and body image.

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Speak Up and Tell Him the Truth!

Don't be afraid to be You and express yourself as you get to know someone. He wants to know!

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The Secret To How Italian Women Create A Great First Date

La Bella Figura, translated literally means “the beautiful figure”. It can mean ...

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Measuring the Seams of your Relationship

3 Essential Steps to Creating a Full Heart ready for an engaged relationship

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Patching Things Up

Learn how to effectively patch the holes in your relationship so there are no more tears or rips

Micaela Passeri

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Empowering Women, Life Management, Parenting, Spiritual/Religious, Wellness

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