Anne Stirling Hastings - Psychologist, Dating Coach, Divorce Coach, Divorce Recovery Coach, Life Coach, Marriage and Family Therapist, Marriage/Couples Counselor, Relationship Coach, Sex Coach, Sex Educator, Sex Therapist, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Camarillo, CA
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Anne Stirling Hastings (PhD)


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Create New Love: How Men and Women can Prepare for a Lasting Relationship

by Anne Stirling Hastings

If you have gone from relationship to relationship, unfulfilled, disappointed, even crushed, you should know that there is a better way. Anne Stirling Hastings’ Create New Love is for men and women who desire the growth, comfort, and happiness that true romantic love can bring. She helps people prepare for a new relationship with knowledge and skills. Don’t wait ...

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Reclaiming Healthy Sexual Energy: Revised

by Anne Stirling Hastings Ph. D

Reclaiming Healthy Sexual Energy: Revised describes how reclaiming healthy sexuality is a journey into a satisfying future. We don't have to know precisely what is wrong sexually to begin the process of healing. It is enough to sense that something is off, something is missing, not working right. Our thoughts or behaviors are somehow disturbing. We can be sure ...

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Dirty Sex or Clean Sex: A Novel From The Man's Point of View

Characters have typically screwed up sexuality, and you get to have the fly on the wall experience of watching them in bed. You also get to walk through their experience of learning about it, and healing it! The author specializes in sexual healing, and is now offering a series of novels and short stories to SHOW the issues and healing instead of merely talking ...

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Anne Stirling Hastings

Quick Stats



Time in Practice:

25 years +

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:

Dating Coach

Divorce Coach

Divorce Recovery Coach

Life Coach

Marriage and Family Therapist

Marriage/Couples Counselor

Relationship Coach

Sex Coach

Sex Educator

Sex Therapist


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At my office


Via Skype

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Licence information:

Expiration 3/30/16
Number psy21365

Articles by Anne Stirling Hastings

Healing Avoidant Attachment Style of Loving

Letting go of Loneliness, Separation, Isolation, and Shame that accompany the avoidant style

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It's Not Sex: What Men Are Really Looking For On Cheating Sites

A psychologist goes on a cheating site — and here's what she discovered.


Addiction To Love And Romance: When He Didn't Call

They finally have sex. SHE: It's love! HE: She wants too much. SHE: That's just the way men are.


Surrogate Spouse: When Your Parent Loved You Too Much

When marriages are troubled sometimes parents turn to their children as special – too special

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The Goddess-Whore Split - Why Men Are Confused

Does he see you as innocent, a goddess, a good girl? Or as slut, whore, bad girl? Or Both?

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Bring Love and Sex Together: The Value of Healing Sexual Shame, A Novel
Grace is fascinated by her explorations of her ...
By Anne Stirling Hastings
Reclaiming Healthy Sexual Energy: Revised
Reclaiming Healthy Sexual Energy: Revised ...
By Anne Stirling Hastings Ph. D
Create New Love: How Men and Women can Prepare for a Lasting Relationship
If you have gone from relationship to ...
By Anne Stirling Hastings
Healing Humanity: Life Without Shame
Healing Humanity reveals how shame causes ...
By Anne Stirling Hastings Ph. D

Anne Stirling Hastings

All Specialties

Abuse / Survivors of Abuse, Addiction, Attachment Issues, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Empowering Men, Empowering Women, Emptiness, Engagement, Health/Wellness, Infidelity / Affair Recovery, Life Management, Marriage, Matchmaking, Men's Issues, Online Dating, Self-Esteem, Sex Addiction, Sexuality