The 7 Traits Of A Masculine Man
I am going to start this article by making a statement that I feel that ALL women need to listen too.
"That women are to encourage men to be Masculine - who they really are and not who women think they should be. This means women ARE to back off, and let MEN find and redefine OUR MASCULINITY in this CHANGING World and BALANCE between the Sexes!"
And, for the men out there who have not got a clue who they are and what real women want and need, here goes my definition of Masculinity:
The Traits of a Masculine Man
TRUST in yourself, not only that you can do what you set out to do, and that you already are what you need to be (even if on the outside it does not yet show).
Everything begins with a thought... watch your thinking... there is a saying, it says, "as a man thinketh, so is he."
Becuase a masculine man is a confident man, even in the face of rejection and its aftermath so that it does not phase him and he moves on if necessary.
Are you a truly confident man has nothing to prove and in control of his life?
Becuase a masculine man is courageous (I am not talking about being willing to do stupid stunts, either), willing to do what is necessary without showing weakness (even if you are scared to death.)
A man cannot be truly courageous and brave if he does not fear something... if a woman is carrying on and wanting to pick a fight, do not back down and run away (and do not fight either.)
Because a woman is not a child, will you run out the door if a child were throwing a tantrum or would you stay and handle the situation?
Are you taking responsibility for what happens in your life and stop being a victim... being a victim is exactly what our society expects you to be... be who you really are intended to be - a leader and victor... make plans and carry them out... do not fear failure.
Someone once said, "If you show me a man who has never made a mistake, I'll show you a man who has never done anything."
Will you refuse to be a victim no matter what you encounter... consider yourself as a "warrior" and victor in all of life's curve balls that come your way... change your plans if necessary, take charge of your life and where it goes...learn from the battles lost and go on to win success.
What would happen if you took charge of your life NOW and what goes on in it?
What would happen if you completed your goals?
Are you doing everything you say you will do?
Are you eating right and staying in shape, therefore you will also be able to think more clearly?
Self-Discipline is a BIG Masculine Triat!
Imagine what would happen if you where in control of your direction and purpose in life.
How does it feel?
What is your life like?
Because if you can imagine your self being that way... you can most certainly make it happen and live that way... the question is... WILL YOU?
Honesty, Integrity, and Kindness...
Are you honest with yourself and others holding yourself to the highest of standards?
Find the fine line between kindness and honesty when necessary... sometimes, one is more important than the other... with some finesse, you will be able to be honest and kind at the same time.
Are you kind and gentle toward women, children, and the elderly?
Compassion towards others is a HUGE strengh and not a weakness, it is a very Kingly Masculine triat.
Treat Women Like Women...
Most of today's men don't seem to have a clue anymore (this is largely because of feminism)... I take my son to Fencing practice and I am saddened by what I experience there... there are only a few chairs and they are usually full of men. When a woman arrive's, not one man hardly ever offers her his chair, yet myself and my son do - a masculine thing.
Real Men Honor And Respect Women.
Real men treat others with respect and dignity... I once read about two men standing on a sidewalk when a prostitute walked by... one man tipped his hat and said, "Good day, ma'am," the other looked the other way, then later asked, "Why did you even speak to her, she's a prostitute!"
To which he replied, "I greeted her not because of who she is but because of who I am."
That is a Masculine Man.
Because a Masculine Man is not a product of his enviroment... his enviroment is a product of him!
Because we have two ears and one mouth for good reason - you are supposed to be doing twice as much listening as speaking... when a woman speaks, listen with to her feelings... instead of thinking, "Oh great, here she goes again."
"She has a need... what is it... what can I do to help?"
Because this seems to go against the nature of today's men, it seems... they want to strike back and have forgotten who they are dealing with... women (and also children.)
I mean what are we supposed to be?
Men, or some kind of macho jerks?
When a woman lets you know she is upset, what she is really doing is asking you to take charge and help her... it is a cry for help... most of the time she will just need your love, understanding, and a listening ear, and under no circumstances are you to take abuse from her... make that very clear... you must keep your cool.
A woman will not respect a man who looses his cool in the face of adversity.
Defend The Vunerable...
Do YOU protect and provide for your family and anyone who is being unfairly attacked... consider getting martial arts training, etc... be prepared for disasters and have a plan... refuse to allow anyone to overstep their boundaries, and be smart about how you accomplish this.
Plan ahead... remember, you are a leader so act like one.
Are you a masculine man who in a relationship with a woman will always inspire and never force her submission... he will remain a gentleman at all times when dealing with a woman.
Imagine just how many women who want this kind of man (and most do, no matter what they say.)
As a woman you do not have to give your man a long list of rules or tell him how to be a man... it is already there inside him... just step back, show him respect, and let him decide.
Do not let ANYONE crush your Masculinity.
Make up your own mind and opinions, and make your own choices in life.
Be a GREAT Man... A MASCULINE MAN!
As always, leave a man or woman all the better for knowing you.
Average men and women know only the rules.
Masculine Men and Feminine Women know and are the EXCEPTIONS!
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