Experts/California (CA)/Irvine/Janet Ong Zimmerman

Janet Ong Zimmerman, Relationship Coach

Janet Ong Zimmerman - Relationship Coach, Author, Dating Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner - Irvine, CA

Relationship Coach

P.O. Box 53546
Irvine, CA
Show on map
Contact Information

Email me
Call Me 949-278-4792
My Website

I Believe

Self love is the only way to a high quality love relationship. The quality of men and love relationships you’ve experienced is a direct result of the degree of love you have for ...

About Me

I'm a Dating and Relationship Coach who coaches successful women on finding love in their lives. If you are like these women, you're successful in most areas of life and haven't yet found the love you desire and deserve.  If you've tried conventional methods to improve your love life only to have love elude you, or if you're attracting men, dates and relationships that never seem to go anywhere, it doesn't have to be this way.  

The women I work with soon realize they have the power to create the experience of love they desire. Being a part of these women's lives and helping them transform pain and heartache into happiness and love brings me great joy. As they move to a place of greater awareness about unhealthy patterns, trust themselves in their choice of men, and attract more of the right men, they experience and enjoy love with more ease.   

To start creating what you desire, check out these useful resources.

On a personal note, here are my favorites, things I find priceless and core values. 

Favorites: practicing yoga and meditation, reading, independent films, day trips, antiquing and flea markets, spending time in nature, Trader Joe's, Italian food, a good glass of wine, a good piece of dark chocolate, potato chips of all kinds, relaxing with a green tea latte.  

Priceless: spending time with family, friends and my husband, meaningful conversations, traveling and experiencing different cultures, living my core values, the sound of the ocean, puffy white clouds, crisp mountain air, getting a good night's sleep, photographs, personal and spiritual growth. 

Core Values: Love, Happiness, Peace, Inspiration, Authenticity, Freedom, Abundance, Integrity, Wellness, Fun, Creativity, Personal and Spiritual Growth  

The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

We all have a message to share that can help the world. These messages usually come from difficult life lessons we’ve grown from and transcended in our own lives. True love is my BIG life lesson.  Love is everything and the power of love transforms lives - this is what makes the world a better place.

Because I understand what successful women go through to find love and have successfully transformed my love life as well as others, I'm passionate about helping them create and sustain lasting love!  Learn how a successful woman unsuccessful in love, transformed her love life

My vision is that all successful women create true love with ease and clarity.  Thank you for joining me here and helping to make my vision a reality. May you have the love you desire and deserve!

Success Stories

I Feel Very Good in My Own Skin and Am In a Much Better Place

"I am doing great and continue to use the lessons you taught me. Most importantly I'm working on conquering my fear of uncertainty. I have been pulled into many directions right now, recruiting for jobs in West Africa and dating someone there. Surprisingly I am not letting any stress get to me and I owe that to you. Thank you so much for all your help. I feel very good in my skin right now and am in a much better place thanks to you." - Bita D.

Engaged to a Wonderful Man

"I want to thank you for guiding me along my journey. I'm now engaged to a WONDERFUL man. :))) He and I went to grammar school together but had gone our separate ways. 30 years later I found him on facebook, I wrote to him, and here we are, Sooo happy together. You made an incredible difference in my life. One that has gotten me through some family hardships as well as lifting my self view high enough to attract my amazing man. Thank you!" - JoAnn K., Massachusetts

Feminine Slide Blossomed and Enjoying New Love

"You've been on my mind lately, as I've realized it's been about a year since we first spoke. My, my how things have changed in a year. I thought I would send you

a letter with an update. That guy Jose I was so into has fallen by the wayside. He came back to town and didn't tell me. I just happen to run into him at an event.

He was nice, but I eventually came to accept that he's not looking for a relationship and isn't into me in that way. I still think about him once in a while, but I'm good and have accepted what is.

I took a few months off from boys. Then in the fall, I decided to get back on the horse and went online. I met a guy but he wasn't really my type. Then I met another guy, Ron, who lives in Vancouver B.C. We've talked everyday for 4 months and just last weekend he came out to visit me for the first time and we hit it off. I really like how we were able to take time to get to know each other a little before meeting physically. Had we been in the same city, I might made my usual mistake of rushing into things. I'm excited about the possibilities. But not rushing into the future. Rather, I'm staying in the present and enjoying it.

My feminine side has blossomed, if I may say so. After a few weeks, he could not believe how nice I was and positive. I owe some of that to you. I've tried my best to find the positive in every situation no matter how difficult or sad. I've also cut back on immediately debating an opinion. Instead, I'll respond, "that's an interesting point of view." I've even rubbed off on Ron a little. I find that he looks for the positive now. And he'll also rephrase his opinions in a kinder way instead of just saying, "You're wrong and I'm right."

I find that I'm not teenage-girl excited about this guy, but rather calm. I really like him and like how things are so easy and effortless. I like that he is very

open with who he is and a great communicator. I suspect it helps that he is older. We'll see how things go. My only concern is that I could appear to be too

nurturing. So I'm trying to find a balance. It's a little difficult because my immediate reaction when someone has a problem or needs something, is to help however

I can. It'll be fine. Often I think, "Wow, I could missed out on this guy because I was so focused on Jose." This person is much more aligned with the type of person I'd like to share my life with. The distance isn't ideal, but he is open to moving here and I am open to moving there if we head in the direction of marriage.

I've practiced more self love and it's been great. I can notice when I'm judging. I notice it and let it go. I still have my moments, but overall, I'm in a better

place. I still struggle with the weight loss. I was doing good, but then fell off the wagon. It's quite the challenge, but one day it will click. I just take it one meal at a time.

I hope that all is well with you and that your business is thriving. I still receive your newsletters and enjoy reading them."

- H.J., Arlington, VA

The Relationship I Want Starts with Me

"Due to Janet's guidance, my perspective on my role in a relationship changed. I have more insight on my responsibility in a relationship - I will no longer accept a "victim" role. I am empowered to view a relationship as an opportunity to improve me, not to change the other person.

Janet was also helpful in helping me to identify my top passions and to focus on what I want as opposed to what I don't want. I will strive to make future relationship decisions based on my passions.

Janet was calm, centered and insightful. I enjoyed working with her immensely and highly recommend her." - Dolores Lara 

Main SpecialtyCommunication Problems
Couples/Marital Issues
Dating/Being Single Support
Time in Practice3-5 years
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseAuthor
Dating Coach
YourTango Expert Partner
I offer my servicesTelephone
By Email
Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)
Via Skype
Via a webcam
I am fluent inEnglish
Latest Expert Videos
My Store

Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life

Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life is history created - the first ...

USD $17.95

Buy online

If the Buddha Dated: A Handbook for Finding Love on a Spiritual Path

In this practical, playful, yet spiritual guide, Charlotte Kasl, ...

USD $12.98

Buy online

The Shift: Taking Your Life from Ambition to Meaning

The Shift—a companion book to the movie of the same ...

USD $14.96

Buy online

10 Secrets for Success and Inner Peace (Puffy Books)

This work offers ten secrets for success and inner peace aimed at ...

USD $12.21

Buy online

Are you an Expert? Let us help you find new clients for your business  SIGN UP NOW