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Janet Ong Zimmerman, Relationship Coach
EXPERTISE
Relationship Coach
LOCATION
P.O. Box 53546
Irvine CA 92619
United States
Phone: 949-278-4792
Fax: 949-387-8076
CONTACT INFO
P.O. Box 53546
Irvine CA 92619
United States
Phone: 949-278-4792
Fax: 949-387-8076

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About Janet Ong Zimmerman

The Reason Janet Ong Zimmerman Became A Helping Professional

Janet Ong Zimmerman Success Stories

I Feel Very Good in My Own Skin and Am In a Much Better Place

Client

"I am doing great and continue to use the lessons you taught me. Most importantly I'm working on conquering my fear of uncertainty. I have been pulled into many directions right now, recruiting for jobs in West Africa and dating someone there. Surprisingly I am not letting any stress get to me and I owe that to you. Thank you so much for all your help. I feel very good in my skin

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"I am doing great and continue to use the lessons you taught me. Most importantly I'm working on conquering my fear of uncertainty. I have been pulled into many directions right now, recruiting for jobs in West Africa and dating someone there. Surprisingly I am not letting any stress get to me and I owe that to you. Thank you so much for all your help. I feel very good in my skin right now and am in a much better place thanks to you." - Bita D.

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Engaged to a Wonderful Man

Women starting over

"I want to thank you for guiding me along my journey. I'm now engaged to a WONDERFUL man. :))) He and I went to grammar school together but had gone our separate ways. 30 years later I found him on facebook, I wrote to him, and here we are, Sooo happy together. You made an incredible difference in my life. One that has gotten me through some family hardships as well as lifting my

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"I want to thank you for guiding me along my journey. I'm now engaged to a WONDERFUL man. :))) He and I went to grammar school together but had gone our separate ways. 30 years later I found him on facebook, I wrote to him, and here we are, Sooo happy together. You made an incredible difference in my life. One that has gotten me through some family hardships as well as lifting my self view high enough to attract my amazing man. Thank you!" - JoAnn K., Massachusetts

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Feminine Slide Blossomed and Enjoying New Love

Women seeking a relationship

"You've been on my mind lately, as I've realized it's been about a year since we first spoke. My, my how things have changed in a year. I thought I would send you
a letter with an update. That guy Jose I was so into has fallen by the wayside. He came back to town and didn't tell me. I just happen to run into him at an event.
He was nice, but I eventually

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"You've been on my mind lately, as I've realized it's been about a year since we first spoke. My, my how things have changed in a year. I thought I would send you
a letter with an update. That guy Jose I was so into has fallen by the wayside. He came back to town and didn't tell me. I just happen to run into him at an event.
He was nice, but I eventually came to accept that he's not looking for a relationship and isn't into me in that way. I still think about him once in a while, but I'm good and have accepted what is.

I took a few months off from boys. Then in the fall, I decided to get back on the horse and went online. I met a guy but he wasn't really my type. Then I met another guy, Ron, who lives in Vancouver B.C. We've talked everyday for 4 months and just last weekend he came out to visit me for the first time and we hit it off. I really like how we were able to take time to get to know each other a little before meeting physically. Had we been in the same city, I might made my usual mistake of rushing into things. I'm excited about the possibilities. But not rushing into the future. Rather, I'm staying in the present and enjoying it.

My feminine side has blossomed, if I may say so. After a few weeks, he could not believe how nice I was and positive. I owe some of that to you. I've tried my best to find the positive in every situation no matter how difficult or sad. I've also cut back on immediately debating an opinion. Instead, I'll respond, "that's an interesting point of view." I've even rubbed off on Ron a little. I find that he looks for the positive now. And he'll also rephrase his opinions in a kinder way instead of just saying, "You're wrong and I'm right."

I find that I'm not teenage-girl excited about this guy, but rather calm. I really like him and like how things are so easy and effortless. I like that he is very
open with who he is and a great communicator. I suspect it helps that he is older. We'll see how things go. My only concern is that I could appear to be too
nurturing. So I'm trying to find a balance. It's a little difficult because my immediate reaction when someone has a problem or needs something, is to help however
I can. It'll be fine. Often I think, "Wow, I could missed out on this guy because I was so focused on Jose." This person is much more aligned with the type of person I'd like to share my life with. The distance isn't ideal, but he is open to moving here and I am open to moving there if we head in the direction of marriage.

I've practiced more self love and it's been great. I can notice when I'm judging. I notice it and let it go. I still have my moments, but overall, I'm in a better
place. I still struggle with the weight loss. I was doing good, but then fell off the wagon. It's quite the challenge, but one day it will click. I just take it one meal at a time.

I hope that all is well with you and that your business is thriving. I still receive your newsletters and enjoy reading them."

- H.J., Arlington, VA

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The Relationship I Want Starts with Me

Women in complicated relationships

"Due to Janet's guidance, my perspective on my role in a relationship changed. I have more insight on my responsibility in a relationship - I will no longer accept a "victim" role. I am empowered to view a relationship as an opportunity to improve me, not to change the other person.

Janet was also helpful in helping me to identify my top passions and to focus on

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"Due to Janet's guidance, my perspective on my role in a relationship changed. I have more insight on my responsibility in a relationship - I will no longer accept a "victim" role. I am empowered to view a relationship as an opportunity to improve me, not to change the other person.

Janet was also helpful in helping me to identify my top passions and to focus on what I want as opposed to what I don't want. I will strive to make future relationship decisions based on my passions.

Janet was calm, centered and insightful. I enjoyed working with her immensely and highly recommend her." - Dolores Lara 

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Main Specialties
Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support
Credentials
Other
I Practice in
All areas, please inquire
Additional Expertise
Author, Dating Coach, Relationship Coach, Speaker/Presenter, YourTango Expert Partner
I OFFER MY SERVICES
Telephone, By Email, Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire), Via Skype, Via a webcam
I AM FLUENT IN
English
Specialties
Communication Problems, Control Issues, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Empowering Women, Engagement, Life Transitions, Online Dating, Personality Disorders, Self-Esteem, Spiritual, Stress Management

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