*Larry Michel* - Marriage/Couples Counselor, Author, Counselor/Therapist, Dating Coach, Divorce Coach, Family Coach, Matchmaker, Relationship Coach, Sex Coach, Speaker/Presenter, Wellness Coach - Encinitas, CA
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*Larry Michel* (Other)

Marriage/Couples Counselor

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Phone larry@TheFourAnswers.com

I work in the field of Genetic Energetics. It is the most effective system I have ever encountered to help people get out of their stories and let go of guilt, blame and resentment so they may honor, acknowledge, appreciate and TRULY LOVE each other. It may sound mushy, but it applies to business as well as friends, family and romance and uncovers instantly the core issues around communication, money, chemistry and sex.

I am available for personal and professional coaching and consulting and I guarantee an absolutely positively transformation experience. Contact me at Larry@TheFourAnswers.com

The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

At age 14, infatuated with a 17-year old gorgeous blond lifeguard at my parent’s country club, I received my first indoctrination into a mix of psychology and spirituality. “If you want a date with me you have to first read two books, Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz and Siddhartha.” Off I went to study for my date.

Decades later after studying psychology and sociology at the University of Washington, earning certifications in NLP and NAC, publishing and speaking infront of audiences from 8 to 34,000, building companies, launching products and starting my own School to certify coaches, counselors and therapist’s, I found my calling in this little known science with a universally felt phenomena—Energetics.

Yes, since age 14 studying and improving the quality of relationships from families to business to romance has been my path. For more than two decades I did so by creating products, seminars and other services for luminaires such as Tony Robbins, Bob Proctor, and John Assaraf and assisting companies to accomplish meteoric rises in sales from millions to hundreds of millions of dollars.

This did not come without a cost. The immersion in my devotion to building companies and helping others resulted in a neglected and failed marriage, rationalized relationships and less than appropriate time with my children.

I strove to make up for the shortcomings with my heart, and I learned the importance of being present, not just for our loved ones, but everyone. At the top of the list of critical life lessons was “story busting”.

It was a monumental awakening to realize that every form of resentment, blame, guilt or shame, and every kind of expectation were stories. NOT REALITY—but expertly crafted personal FANTASIES designed to substantiate our fears, pains, deeply buried traumas and more. Or they were an attempt to control the outcome of a circumstance fueled by desires and egos gone wild.

All these prevented us from one thing— TRUE LOVE. The past and the future are not real! Perhaps useful for learning what actions get better results or to set goals and objectives, but living in either instantly ends our connection with the here and now. Fear, shame, guilt and blame must be gone for us to honor, appreciate, respect and love each other and for us to TRULY SEE the amazing divine beings we encounter everyday of our life. They must be gone for any of us to fully love our source and ourselves.

I am here on YourTango as your “Love Finder”. First to discover your unconditional love of yourself and then your love for others. I bring potent tools that look at our core energetic influences, which impact every relationship we enter.

My sincerest passion and ultimate goal is if for you to:

➢ Communicate effectively with more energy, kindness and love
➢ Create and live your life consciously at your own speed
➢ Find powerful clarity in the way you relate to money
➢ Discover and experience transformational channels of sexual fulfillment
➢ Identify how Chemistry directs the course you take with everyone you meet, and
➢ Gain deep insights to your own unique characteristics, embracing the real you for real success

I am a Story Buster and do my best to embody the nick name "The Love Finder". I promise to never hold back from knocking down obstacles in the way of either. I will be kind. I cannot promise gentle. Your transformation will trickle out to everyone you touch and with grace and bliss plenty of children along the way.

You can find me on Facebook, or visit me at TheFourAnswers.com, through my School of Genetic Energetics or my company MatchMatrix.com, where you will find a plethora of mind expanding information and customized reports about your Energetic blueprint.

*Larry Michel*

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Religious affiliation:

Spiritual, but no affiliation

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*Larry Michel*

Payment Options

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Fee Range:

Over $120 per session

*Larry Michel*

Quick Stats

Main Specialty:

Couples/Marital Issues

Dating/Being Single Support




Time in Practice:

25 years +

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:



Dating Coach

Divorce Coach

Family Coach


Relationship Coach

Sex Coach


Wellness Coach

I offer my services:

At my office


By Email

Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)

Via Skype

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Articles by *Larry Michel*
Love: Money Problems and Your Relationship

Student Loan Turmoil: Why You Must Talk Money Before Marriage

Are you in danger of defaulting on your relationship?


Are Open Relationships A Way To Divorce-Proof Your Marriage?

A new study says we're more open to consensual nonmonogamy now than ever before — but do they work?


Dreams Do Come True!

More than any Hollywood produced fairytale; this amazing story says it all...

deep breath

3 Steps to Successfuly Manage Your Combined Finances

Don’t Be Fooled Into Thinking There’s a Financial Path to Relationship Doom

Statistics Lie: Money Has Never Been The Cause Of Divorce

Statistics Lie: Money Has Never Been The Cause Of Divorce

Would you like to money proof your marriage? Start by realizing everything you've been told is wrong

*Larry Michel*

All Specialties

Attachment Issues, Career, Communication Problems, Conflict Management, Core Dynamics, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Empowering Men, Empowering Women, Energy Psychology, Family Support, Forgiveness, Infidelity / Affair Recovery, Life Transitions, Marriage, Matchmaking, NLP, Online Dating, Parenting, Self-Esteem, Sexuality, Trust Issues