*Larry Michel*, Marriage/Couples Counselor

*Larry Michel* - Marriage/Couples Counselor, Author, Business Coach, Consultant, Counselor/Therapist, Dating Coach, Divorce Coach, Divorce Recovery Coach, Family Coach, Life Coach, Marriage Educator, Matchmaker, Relationship Coach, Sex Coach, Sex Educator, Speaker/Presenter, Wellness Coach, YourTango Expert Partner - Encinitas, CA

Marriage/Couples Counselor

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Hearts are never broken. Stories are broken. Heart are only opened!

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About Me

Larry Michel, AKA The Love Shepherd, is the Founder of the School of Genetic Energetics and the CEO of TheFourAnswers.com and MatchMatrix.com. For nearly 40 years MatchMatrix has been delivering an understanding into our unique energetics so that people can learn to effectively identify and accommodate for differences, plus embrace their own unique characteristics. The results are saved relationships, successful dating, dramatically enhanced performance in business, education, parenting and a beginning to an end to many forms of sexual dysfunction and bullying. Please accept a free gift from Larry at http://www.matchmatrix.com/Public/Products/PersonalEnergeticProfile/?af=2193

I am available for personal and professional coaching and consulting and I guarantee an absolutely positively transformation experience. Contact me at Larry@TheFourAnswers.com

The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

At age 14, infatuated with a 17-year old gorgeous blond lifeguard at my parent’s country club, I received my first indoctrination into a mix of psychology and spirituality. “If you want a date with me you have to first read two books, Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz and Siddhartha.” Off I went to study for my date.

Decades later after studying psychology and sociology at the University of Washington, earning certifications in NLP and NAC, publishing and speaking infront of audiences from 8 to 34,000, building companies, launching products and starting my own School to certify coaches, counselors and therapist’s, I found my calling in this little known science with a universally felt phenomena—Energetics.

Yes, since age 14 studying and improving the quality of relationships from families to business to romance has been my path. For more than two decades I did so by creating products, seminars and other services for luminaires such as Tony Robbins, Bob Proctor, and John Assaraf and assisting companies to accomplish meteoric rises in sales from millions to hundreds of millions of dollars.

This did not come without a cost. The immersion in my devotion to building companies and helping others resulted in a neglected and failed marriage, rationalized relationships and less than appropriate time with my children.

I strove to make up for the shortcomings with my heart, and I learned the importance of being present, not just for our loved ones, but everyone. At the top of the list of critical life lessons was “story busting”.

It was a monumental awakening to realize that every form of resentment, blame, guilt or shame, and every kind of expectation were stories. NOT REALITY—but expertly crafted personal FANTASIES designed to substantiate our fears, pains, deeply buried traumas and more. Or they were an attempt to control the outcome of a circumstance fueled by desires and egos gone wild.

All these prevented us from one thing— TRUE LOVE. The past and the future are not real! Perhaps useful for learning what actions get better results or to set goals and objectives, but living in either instantly ends our connection with the here and now. Fear, shame, guilt and blame must be gone for us to honor, appreciate, respect and love each other and for us to TRULY SEE the amazing divine beings we encounter everyday of our life. They must be gone for any of us to fully love our source and ourselves.

I am here on YourTango as your “Love Finder”. First to discover your unconditional love of yourself and then your love for others. I bring potent tools that look at our core energetic influences, which impact every relationship we enter.

My sincerest passion and ultimate goal is if for you to:

➢ Communicate effectively with more energy, kindness and love
➢ Create and live your life consciously at your own speed
➢ Find powerful clarity in the way you relate to money
➢ Discover and experience transformational channels of sexual fulfillment
➢ Identify how Chemistry directs the course you take with everyone you meet, and
➢ Gain deep insights to your own unique characteristics, embracing the real you for real success

I am a Story Buster and do my best to embody the nick name "The Love Finder". I promise to never hold back from knocking down obstacles in the way of either. I will be kind. I cannot promise gentle. Your transformation will trickle out to everyone you touch and with grace and bliss plenty of children along the way.

You can find me on Facebook, or visit me at TheFourAnswers.com, through my School of Genetic Energetics or my company MatchMatrix.com, where you will find a plethora of mind expanding information and customized reports about your Energetic blueprint.

Success Stories

Helpful, game changing with valuable personal attention

"The information itself is helpful and game changing, but even more valuable was the personal explanation of what it all meant for me."

"I went into my time with Larry with nervous excitement, unsure of what to expect, but knowing that it'd be interesting. That hour turned out to be unbelievably illuminating. Larry took the time to ask about myself and my past relationship, and then used that context to explain my Energetics.

Aspects of myself that I had always wondered about, or been confused by, Larry was able to explain using the matrix and suddenly I was able to see patterns from my relationships much more clearly. Knowing my 4 Lifestyle traits, and how they align with my former partner, put so much into perspective and gave me a deeper understanding of our compatibility, as well as a working knowledge to apply in my next relationships. The information itself is helpful and game changing, but even more valuable was Larry's personal explanation of what it all meant for me. He spent as long as I needed to help me make sense of all of this and to learn how to use this to inform my choices moving forward. I can't thank Larry enough for this invaluable gift; I know that my relationships moving forward will be hugely strengthened because of what I now know about myself.”

-Sarah Stimson

Comfortable and non-judgmental

"...Comfortable and non-judgmental"

“The experience of being with Larry was so comfortable and non judgmental. Larry and I were two different communication styles, yet I really felt heard and understood. I highly recommend this system and a session with Larry to anyone curious to connect to their true nature. My next relationship I will definitely consult with Larry. Thank you for creating this for the world.”

- Sheilla

The beauty of this system is its simplicity

"The beauty of this system is its simplicity"

“In one of Larry's interviews he said that, "when I found out the problem I asked how to fix it" - answer-you don't, it's like your blood type. The beauty of this system is its simplicity. You are a cheetah and the other may be an elephant. Different species. Good to know what your species is. Knowing allows you to nurture and create from your nature, not how to contort into someone else's nature. This system informs you that you are you. Cheetah or elephant one is not better than the other, just different. Know who you are and celebrate. Thank you MatchMatrix.”


"I am especially appreciative of the time and care you took"

"I am especially appreciative of the time and care you took in the Laser Coaching Session...."

“Many Thanks to you and your staff for the Energetic Romance Report. This report was extremely helpful in giving me understanding about my own energetic profile and that of a former partner. I am especially appreciative of the time and care you took in the Laser Coaching Session last evening to help me better understand my own energetic profile and its impact on others. This new learning is very exciting to me. I have always been aware that my high energy level could be problematic for some in my relationships in life. For a romantic partner without the same level of energy it has been especially difficult. Going forward I will seek out a partner with the same energy level as my own. With my better understanding of my Genetic Energy characteristics and how these characteristics influence my relationships I hope to be more successful in deepening my relationships with family, and friends. With a clearer understanding of where I have been in relationships I look forward to attracting a new partner into my life.

Thanks you so much again for your insights and encouragement for future relationships.”

  - Beth M

Main SpecialtyCouples/Marital Issues
Dating/Being Single Support
Time in Practice25 years +
I practice inAll areas, please inquire
Additional ExpertiseAuthor
Business Coach
Dating Coach
Divorce Coach
Divorce Recovery Coach
Family Coach
Life Coach
Marriage Educator
Relationship Coach
Sex Coach
Sex Educator
Wellness Coach
YourTango Expert Partner
I offer my servicesAt my office
By Email
Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)
Via Skype
I am fluent inEnglish
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