LJ Innes - Author, Consultant, Personal Development Coach, Relationship Coach - Deans, NJ
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First, you've got to love yourself.

My goal is to empower people to be the champions in their own lives and to have a winning relationship with themselves - allowing them to enhance all of their other personal realtionships, because as I often say, "First ... you've got to love yourself."

I am an intuitive and empathic life student.  Over many years I have absorbed the teachings of many enlightened speakers and authors and have been inspired by them to find my own path to personal freedom and happiness.  Now I use all that I've learned (and we never stop learning) to help others reach into their "true selves" to find their own best path to happiness.

Not unlike anyone else, I've made mistakes in love, friendships and relationships in general.  The thing about "mistakes" is that they can be transformed into lessons that teach us how to reach into our own souls, to find peace and happiness within ourselves and thereby allowing us to connect with others in a true and authentic way.

I can help you do what you want in this life and truly be happy - I know, because I did it.

  • Loving Yourself for Who You Truly Are
  • Finding the Right Relationship for You
  • Becoming a Dating Superstar!
  • Self-Empowerment Skills for Men and Women (I'm an equal opportunity empowerer)
  • Demystifying the Man Mind - What is He Thinking
  • Getting to the Core of a Woman's Heart - What is She Looking For in a Relationship
  • Can Friends Become Lovers and Vice Versa

My passion is to not only help you find the passion in your own life, but to live it each and every day.

Stop by my website - read a few articles, sign up for my emails and of course you can always write to me right here on YourTango.com.

The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

Family - Love - Friendship - Life Fulfillment

Giving advice is what I was born to do.  I started my career as a freelance writer - writing articles that focused on relationship dynamics, self-love and empowerment.  My practice built itself quite by accident as people who read my articles started contacting me for personal advice - something I felt really good about doing.

For as long as I can remember, people have opened up to me about their deepest relationship problems, concerns and situations - and helping people to succeed in their own lives is my true passion.

  • Dating
  • Progressing Relationships to the Next Level
  • Not Holding on to Relationships that Don't Work
  • Finding the Right Mr. or Mrs. Right
  • Getting Over a "Bad Patch"

I don't judge but I do care.  

I will give you the straight-up advice that will make your life something to celebrate!

To find out more about me, feel free to visit my website.  And thank you for stopping by.

~LJ Innes

LJ Innes

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LJ Innes

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LJ Innes

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Time in Practice:

3-5 years

I practice in:

Multiple states/provinces, please inquire

Additional Expertise:


Personal Development Coach

Relationship Coach

I offer my services:


By Email

Willing To Meet in Public Locations like Starbucks (please inquire)

Via Skype

Via a webcam

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Articles by LJ Innes
Relationship Advice For Women: Friendship Breakups

How To Have An Easy Breakup... With Your Best Friend

Friendships breakups are never easy, but they can be drama-free.


When Friendships End

When a friendship is no longer working for you, how do you break up with your best friend?


When Friendships End

When a friendship is no longer working for you, how do you break up with your best friend?


5 Reasons to Keep Your Relationship Troubles a Secret

"Loose Lips Sink Relationships" - Anything you say can and will be held against you.


Meditation: The 15-Minute Life Changer

A simple 15-minute meditation day or night or both, can change your life for the better.

LJ Innes

All Specialties

Dating/Being Single Support, Empowering Women, Emptiness, Forgiveness, Life Transitions, Self-Esteem, Sexuality, Worry