Joe  Amoia - Dating Coach, Matchmaker, Relationship Coach - Hillsdale, NJ
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Joe Amoia (DO)

Dating Coach

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Phone 201-638-9927

Fax: 201-722-8898

309 Broadway Suite J

Hillsdale, NJ Show on map

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I didn't set out to be an expert on dating & relationships. I went to school because I wanted to be a doctor. Ever since I was a lil boy I wanted to help people. But after practicing one-on-one for several years a part of me knew that I should be doing more with my life and the best way to do that was to serve and help more people.

Hi, My name is Joe Amoia & I am the founder & creator of Smarter Dating For Women and the Quantum Leap Ultimate Relationship Program, both of which feature the 5 Step Relationship Success Formula (TM), the same formula I used to find and attract my wife in less than 3 months

My knowledge and skills of dating and human behavior comes from my 17 years of being a doctor and working with my practice members. The more I shared my story of how I went form dating disaster to dating master the more I was encouraged to write a book & share what I have learned with others.

I created Smarter Dating to share the mindset, skills & strategies a woman needs to find, attract and recognize the right man without any of the frustration, games and drama that most single women are used to. I am able to share a man's perspective and give insights into what it is that a guy is really looking for (yes, he wants more than sex) and what it takes to create a happy and fulfilling long term committed relationship

I have been happily married to my wife and best friend Natalie for 9 years and we have 3 awesome sons.

The Reason I Became A Helping Professional

So, how did a doctor wind up becoming a dating and relationship expert? It's very story. Several years ago I was engaged to Mrs. Wrong. It was 30 days away from the day we were supposed to walk down the aisle.  It was supposed to be the happiest time of my life & I was miserable (and so was she). We ultimately wound up calling off the wedding but it was that expereince and the result of being single again that led me to do a lot of self reflection & to see what I had to do to make sure I didn't repeat the same mistake.

As a result I learned alot about myself and how to date.  Up until that point I was a dating disaster. I had no "game" and my club/bar days had long past me by. I soon learned that dating is a numbers game and by learning  how to postion yourself to win you greatly increase your odds of finding and attracting the type of person you are looking for.

I soon went from a guy who hardly dated to a guy who was dating three women at once ( I was dating them, not sleeping with them). By using the 5 Step Relationship Success Formula I was able to go from somone who despised the dating game to someone who became very good at it (and who learned to enjoy it). WIthin 3 months of discovering this  system I was able to find and attract my wife.

Every day I get to wake up I am grateful becasue I have found the person makes my life better in every way. I used to think that those individuals who have great relationships were just lucky to have found each other. I now reazlie that there are no relationship gods favoring one person over the other. The truth is the quality of a person's relationshp is a direct reflection of the choices they make. Those who make poor choices wind up in unhappy & unfulfilling relationshps and those who make smarter choices are the ones who get to expereince what a great relationship is really like.

It is my intention to share what I have learned with those individuals who are ready to put their single days behind them  & who are ready to give up the good to go for the GREAT!!!

I invite you to check out my blog for the latest dating tips & advice. I would also like to give you a free gift: My free 5 day online e-course called The 5 Biggest Mistakes Women Make in Dating Men. To receive your free gift click here .

If you would like to schedule a complimentary 30 minute Smarter Dating Consulation you can e-mail me at .

Remember the key to success is to do things Smarter...Not Harder!!!!!

Joe Amoia

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Joe Amoia

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Joe Amoia

Quick Stats

Main Specialty:

Dating/Being Single Support

Empowering Women





Time in Practice:

1-3 years

I practice in:

All areas, please inquire

Additional Expertise:


Relationship Coach

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At my office


By Email

Via Skype

Articles by Joe Amoia
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3 Signs You're Dating A Caveman

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5 Body Parts You Hate (But Your Husband Loves!)

Do you waste time feeling badly about so-called problem areas that he finds sexy?

Joe Amoia

All Specialties

Communication Problems, Dating/Being Single Support, Divorce/Divorce Prevention, Empowering Women, Life Management, Matchmaking