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Sometimes a little 'love pat' is all you need to rev each other up. Who knows? It may inspire some sexy role-playing à la 'Fifty Shades.'

Spicing up your sex life doesn't take as much effort as you might think. And not only is it surprisingly easy, it can be a barrel-load of fun too. (P.S. If you want to learn the best blowjob tips & techniques, you'll find them in this powerful video) 1. Initiation

Learning how to be submissive can be a tricky thing. That's why I have written this guide, based on some of the principles for better sex that I teach at the Bad Girl's Bible to show you exactly how to be submissive for your man without him losing respect for you. (P.S. If you want to learn my best blowjob tips & techniques, you'll find them in this powerful video) It's Perfectly Normal To Want To Be Submissive

Do you like role-playing, bondage and other aspects of kinky BDSM sex? Are you and your partner turned on to the idea, but not sure where to start? If so, help is on the way.

Hoping to get your pulse racing, your kundalini rising, and your chakras spinning like tops? Explore which path of Tantra will get your aura started. I imagine that 50 shades is actually a modest estimation. This is increasingly true in this modern age, especially now that Tantra is becoming so popular here in the West. Tantra has been around for thousands of years and continues to evolve as Eastern philosophy meets Western psychology.

50 Shades of Grey has given millions of people permission to begin exploring the kinkier side of sex. Attendance at fetish clubs and in online kinky communities are at an all-time high, and it is no longer taboo to admit your interest in exploring rough sex and role playing. As more and more people begin sampling from the banquet of BDSM and kink, it is important to remember that there is a wide spectrum of intensity to explore.

At the risk of "tooting my own horn," I have had many women refer to me as "The Black Christian Grey" as well as "The King of Verbal Seduction" (a nickname frequently used on my adult-themed podcast program, The Erotic Conversationalist).  To this day, I have a number of e-mail messages and messages on the popular social networking site, Facebook, from women who refer to me as "Sir," "Daddy," or "Mr.

What's kink? It's the opposite of plain old vanilla sex, and until "Fifty Shades of Grey" burst onto the scene in 2011, it was something many people assumed belonged to some leather-bound sexual subculture.

A 26-year old toy store employee is suing her former boss because he wanted to fire her after she broke up with him when their relationship veered into territory well-explored by the feature film Secretary.

What comes to mind when you think of Harvard students? Impeccable grades? A quaint campus in Boston? What about kinky, Fifty Shades of Grey-style sex in handcuffs? Meet Harvard's newest student organization: Harvard College Munch, a sex club.

As someone who has identified as kinky for over a decade, both professionally and personally, I have to admit I was absolutely appalled when the 50 Shades trilogy first hit the mainstream. I read all three books, and as I read some of the myths and stereotypes, I had to do some deep breathing. I couldn't help thinking, "these are the books that have become the cultural reference point for kink?" As I thought this, a bit of my kinky little heart broke.

Christian Grey is damn near God-like — at least according to guests' bedside tables in The Damson Dene Hotel. Bibles have been booted and E. L. James' BDSM erotica novel 50 Shades of Grey has taken their place in every room within the English inn.

With the world-wide phenomenon that the ‘Fifty Shades Of Grey” trilogy has become it’s impossible to escape the media coverage, the ecstatic fan base and the conversation it’s all stirred up. The most important aspect of these books is the permission they give to read, enjoy and even live out kinky fantasies.

The first time I asked a guy to spank me in bed, he suggested I double up on my therapy sessions. When I asked him a second time, he did it — but in a half-assed way because it wasn't his thing. While I respect that, I knew that if I didn't get properly spanked at some point soon, I was going to lose it.

Before you get too excited, no: the "Fifty Shades of Grey" movie has not started casting yet, and an incredibly handsome actor has not been chosen to play Christian Grey. But there is a picture of the rich, handsome and kinky love interest of the erotic novel sensation.

If you have not heard about the popularity of the novel series, Fifty Shades of Grey, by E. L. James, than you are likely living under a rock. This romance novel's overnight smash popularity is an indication of several things. Number one, women enjoy sex. Number two, women do like erotica. And, number three, women enjoy their erotic adventures wrapped in a handsome fantasy and safely packaged in a monogamous relationship.