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This makes 'Fifty Shades Of Grey' required reading.
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Like It Kinky Between The Sheets? Science Says You're Healthier

Here's something you probably never associated with kinky sex: increased mental health. According to one study currently making the rounds, practitioners of the BDSM lifestyle — Bondage, Dominance, and Sado-Masochism — were observed to have much higher levels of mental health than practitioners of "vanilla" sexual lifestyles.

The Ties that Bind
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The Ties that Bind

I read my first romance novel when I was 15 years old. I was on my way to see my older brother and his wife after the birth of their twin girls. I only bought the book b/c the lady next to me wouldn’t shut up about it and well, she just wouldn’t shut up at all. It was my first plane ride but I almost hoped the oxygen masks would drop from the overhead compartment. At least she’d have been muffled, right?

Hugs, A Metaphor for D/s
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Hugs, A Metaphor for D/s

I'm a nice guy. I'm probably one of the nicest guys you'll ever meet. Not meek by any means but nice. When Lacey and I met, she was never a sub. Then we found this power struggle. She found she had sub tendencies and I liked the dom tendencies. Check out my other community postings for how all of this came about. The other day as we were snuggling after a session, Lacey asked. - "What do you get out of this?"

Can you order dinner for your spouse?
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Can you order dinner for your spouse?

Could you order dinner for your spouse without them looking at the menu? A simple question. Please post your thoughts to the comments section. When we go to a restaurant, It is naturally assumed by both of us, that I will do the ordering. So our question to our reading audience is: Is it ok for a partner, regardless of which, to order for their spouse? Before you answer consider the following. The nature of our relationship is such that our answer is yes. It is perfectly acceptable for me to order for Lacey in a restaurant. As part of the dynamics of our relationship:

Exploring the Dichotomy of a BDSM relationship.
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Exploring the Dichotomy of a BDSM relationship.

Safe Words, Whips and Leather, Paddles and Spanking. It’s all very exciting stuff. Or maybe your reaction is it’s all too freaky for me; let me out of here. We'd ask that you would stick it out. We were as surprised as anyone by the discoveries we’ve made. Lacey and I have each lived a life, we are a 40 something couple that are remarried. Recently we've discovered a D/s side to our relationship. How it came about is a post for another day. The power exchange is the focus of this blog. I am the Dom and Lacey is the sub.

Is Safe Sex Boring Sex?
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Is Safe Sex Boring Sex?

Most women feel they need to be in a comfortable relationship for the best sex to occur. This expert says trying something new and pushing your comfort zone might be the key to better sex.