20 Best Songs About Believing In Yourself
Because we all feel low sometimes.
So, maybe you didn't start 2019 off on the right foot, and that's okay! We've compiled a playlist to help ramp up your energy and your self-esteem so you can finish January off the proper way.
With the help of female powerhouses like Shania Twain, Taylor Swift, and Miley Cyrus, who wouldn't want to jam out to these inspirational songs when you're needing a pick me up? Whether you're journaling and setting intentions for the week, or working at a local coffee shop, let 2019 be the year you learn how to believe in yourself and practice self-improvement for you and all your girlfriends.
1. "Fight Song" by Rachel Platten
This is my fight song
Take back my life song
Prove I'm alright song
My power's turned on
Starting right now I'll be strong
I'll play my fight song
And I don't really care if nobody else believes
'Cause I've still got a lot of fight left in me
If you feel like you're at rock bottom and there's no way out, this song harnesses all of that emotion and bringing yourself back up. Sometimes all we need is a little push.
2. "The Climb" by Miley Cyrus
The struggles I'm facing
The chances I'm taking
Sometimes might knock me down but
No I'm not breaking
I may not know it
But these are the moments that
I'm going to remember most yeah
Just got to keep going
The song of our teenage years. It just goes to show that there is always going to be another hurdle we have to conquer — you just have to keep fighting. This song will also make you want to throw on Hannah Montana: The Movie.
3. "The Middle" by Jimmy Eat World
Hey
Don't write yourself off yet
It's only in your head you feel left out or looked down on
Just try your best
Try everything you can
And don't you worry what they tell themselves when you're away
We've all been there shouting this song at the top of our lungs at a bar or even alone in our room. Great things in life take time, so we just have to sit back and let it happen as it's supposed to.
4. "Breathin" by Ariana Grande
Just keep breathin' and breathin' and breathin' and breathin'
And oh, I gotta keep, I keep on breathin'
Just keep breathin' and breathin' and breathin' and breathin'
And oh, I gotta keep, I keep on breathin', mmm, yeah
Pretty sure there is nothing Ariana Grande can't do. She originally wrote this song about her anxiety and overcoming everything that comes along with it. Sometimes the first step in learning how to believe in yourself is just taking a deep breath and taking a step forward.
5. "Confident" by Demi Lovato
I used to hold my freak back
Now I'm letting go
I make my own choice
B****, I run this show
So leave the lights on
No, you can't make me behave
Being confident and believing in yourself go hand-in-hand. Just fake it 'til you-make it, and walk in like the fabulous and fearless woman you are!
6. "Ready" by Cherie
I know that you're out there somewhere
Waiting on a deeper connection
Now I'm looking to my left
Searching on my right
Cause we could be the greatest adventure
I'm ready come and find me
I'm not gonna hide
Got the sun on my side
It's heavy 'cause I'm finally
Open to the one and I'm ready ready
If you're reinventing yourself in 2019, don't be afraid to begin again and let yourself radiate and seek deeper connections. Be open to new relationships and invitations the world has to offer you.
7. "Keep Your Head Up" by Andy Grammer
I'm seeing all the angles, starts to get tangled
I start to compromise
My life and the purpose
Is it all worth it,
Am I gonna turn out fine?
Oh, you'll turn out fine
Fine, oh, you'll turn out fine
Life can get pretty low sometimes (okay, a lot). You just have to get past that small voice in your head telling you that you'll never be okay, and push past and keep your head up.
8. "Mean" by Taylor Swift
Someday I'll be living in a big old city
And all you're ever gonna be is mean
Someday I'll be big enough so you can't hit me
And all you're ever gonna be is mean
Why you gotta be so mean?
You don't have time to not feel valuable or unappreciated in your relationships. Make time for the people who love you and lift you up. As Taylor Swift once said, "All you're ever going to be is mean."
9. "Note to Self" by Ben Rector
Note to self
Clean the living room
Do the things you don't wanna do maybe
Fold that week old pile of clothes
Note to self
Get some exercise
Feels bad and you have to try
But as far as I can tell that's how life goes
Note to self
Don't let yourself worry quite as much
It'll end up fine enough
It always has up until now
Do yourself a favor and listen to this song. Sometimes we just have to have long, meaningful conversations with ourselves to set good intentions and reminders to be kind to ourselves and the people that we love.
10. "Stronger (What Doesn't Kill You)" by Kelly Clarkson
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone
What doesn't kill you makes a fighter
Footsteps even lighter
Doesn't mean I'm over 'cause you're gone
Fall down seven times, stand up eight. Kelly Clarkson's song truly inspires everyone. No matter how hard you fall, you can always get back up and stand even taller.
11. "This Is Me" by The Greatest Showman Cast
When the sharpest words wanna cut me down
I'm gonna send a flood, gonna drown them out
I am brave, I am bruised
I am who I'm meant to be, this is me
Look out 'cause here I come
And I'm marching on to the beat I drum
I'm not scared to be seen
I make no apologies, this is me
A movie about defying the odds of others' opinions and rising up comes with the most beautiful message about always staying true to yourself. This number (and movie) will truly touch your heart.
12. "Rise Up" by Andra Day
And I'll rise up
I'll rise like the day
I'll rise up
I'll rise unafraid
I'll rise up
And I'll do it a thousand times again
And I'll rise up
High like the waves
I'll rise up
In spite of the ache
I'll rise up
And I'll do it a thousands times again
For you
For you
For you
For you
No matter how much you're hurting or in pain, just know that getting past the wall and waking up every day is a step in the right direction. This song embodies what so many people fight to do each and every day.
13. "Beautiful" by Christina Aguilera
I am beautiful
No matter what they say
Words can't bring me down
I am beautiful
In every single way
Yes words can't bring me down
Oh no
So don't you bring me down today
A song way before its time. It's as if Christina Aguilera was looking into our souls and spoke to each and every one of us when she sang this song. But really, who cares what people think about you? You're beautiful.
14. "Put Your Records On" by Corinne Bailey Rae
Girl, put your records on, tell me your favorite song
You go ahead, let your hair down
Sapphire and faded jeans
I hope you get your dreams
Just go ahead, let your hair down
You're gonna find yourself somewhere, somehow
A feel-good song that you can ride your bike to and have on repeat. Sometimes, believing in yourself is all about feeling good and loving yourself in the moment.
15. "Man! I Feel Like a Woman" by Shania Twain
The girls need a break
Tonight we're gonna take
The chance to get out on the town
We don't need romance, we only want to dance
We're gonna let our hair hang down
Your go-to feel-good karaoke song! There is nothing better than belting this song out with your girls in your best pair of shoes!
16. "Don't Stop Believing" by Journey
Strangers waiting
Up and down the boulevard
Their shadows searching in the night
Streetlight people
Living just to find emotion
Hiding, somewhere in the night
Don't stop believin'
Hold on to the feelin'
Streetlight people
The song that really intiated that we should all just start beliving in oursevles and hold onto the feeling that it will all get better.
17. "Try" By Colbie Caillat
Get your sexy on
Don't be shy, girl
Take it off
This is what you want, to belong, so they like you
Do you like you?
You don't have to try so hard
You don't have to, give it all away
You just have to get up, get up, get up, get up
You don't have to change a single thing
With social media it's easy to fall down the rabbit hole and think you have to be the person you see everyone on social media being. Life is so much more beautiful than the highlight reel.
18. "What Makes You Beautiful" by One Direction
You're insecure
Don't know what for
You're turning heads when you walk through the door
Don't need makeup, to cover up
Being the way that you are is enough
Everyone else in the room can see it
Everyone else but you
Okay, the message of this song is so corny and true. Our friends and everyone around us can always see our beauty, but when we look in the mirror we always turn up our nose.
19. "Shake It Off" by Taylor Swift
'Cause the players gonna play, play, play, play, play
And the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate
Baby, I'm just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake
I shake it off, I shake it off
Heartbreakers gonna break, break, break, break, break
And the fakers gonna fake, fake, fake, fake, fake
Baby, I'm just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake
I shake it off, I shake it off
The fact that Taylor Swift wrote this song about her haters to show the world she loves herself and will continue to always be herself is pure gold. If Taylor can believe in herself, you can do anything.
20. "Steal My Sunshine" by Len
I was lying on the grass of Sunday morning of last week
Indulging in my self-defeat
My mind was thugged, all laced and bugged, all twisted, wrong and beat
A comfortable three feet deep
Now the fuzzy stare from not being there on a confusing morning week
Impaired my tribal lunar speak
And of course you can't become if you only say what you would have done
So I missed a million miles of fun
I know it's up for me
(If you steal my sunshine)
Making sure I'm not in too deep
(If you steal my sunshine)
Keeping versed and on my feet
(If you steal my sunshine)
Don't let the world dull your shine with negative energy and bad attitudes. If the world is dark and gray, make your own and build up others in the process.
Shelby Slaughter's lifestyle writing has been featured on Martha Stewart, HelloGiggles, Byride, and more. She has a zest for storytelling and sharing news with the world.