10 Reasons Depression During The Holidays Is Much Worse

Ever wonder why depression seems so much worse during the holiday season? Some of the reasons may be a surprise, while others seem very obvious. Here are 10 reasons people suffer from depression during the holidays, and each one is based on real personal struggles.

1. Humbuggery

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This word is made famous in Charles Dickens' story, A Christmas Carol, where Scrooge frequently says, “Bah-Humbug.” The pure meaning of the word is a pretense or deception. During this time of year, the gap between the happy (whether faked or real) and the sad seems to be amplified. This trickery gives the illusion that depression is worse because of the comparison to the cheerful.

2. Superficiality

Just one short month ago, a rare election upset created a divisive nation elevating levels of anxiety and doom. These feelings have not had a chance to reset and already there is an expectation of celebrating the holidays joyously. This fast shift creates an artificial and shallow façade which most depressed people are unable to accommodate.

3. Disconnection

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Some people have party invitations to spare while others don’t receive even one. The lack of engagements highlights feelings of loneliness and isolation at a time when the exact opposite should be true.

4. Disharmony

There is nothing quite like the holiday season to force a reunion of dysfunctional family members into one environment. The old saying “One rotten apple spoils the whole barrel” is a perfect explanation as to how one dysfunctional person can disrupt an otherwise wonderful gathering. Their presence alone can cast gloominess on everyone around.

5. Fabrication

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In an effort to minimize past trauma, many rewrite the ghosts of Christmas past into a more angelic version. This self-protecting mechanism can be useful as long as no one counteracts with the truth. But when that occurs, feelings of hopelessness rapidly replace the denial of reality.

6. Scantiness

Not everyone is fortunate enough to have the financial resources for gift-giving. Those unable to give at the level they desire frequently have feelings of despair. There is a whole different reality between those able to spend money and those unable. This is highlighted and reinforced by the media, ads, and displays.

7. Heartache

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Holiday traditions which unite family and friends simultaneously reveal those no longer part of the gang. Whether the reason is by death, divorce, missing, deployment, or intentional isolation, the pain in the heart is there.

Depending on the nature of the departure, this ache can last for many years and in some cases a lifetime. The process of grieving is unique to each person and circumstance, but the holidays exaggerate the sadness.

8. Trepidation

The discussion of New Year’s resolutions permeates news stories as the end of the year draws to a close. Having to confront past failed attempts at pledges to do life differently, piles on the discouragement. This dreaded confrontation feels more like a doomsday rather than a celebration.

9. Weariness

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The holidays are filled with additional activities and obligations which are not apparent the rest of the year. However, there is no increase in the number of hours available to accommodate the events. The result is many healthy activities are sacrificed for an exhausting and hurried schedule. The lack of good self-care and balance can strengthen depression.

The 10 REAL Reasons Depression Worsens During The Holidays

Depression is not something to discount during the holidays.

The 10 REAL Reasons Depression Worsens During The Holidays

Depression is not something to discount during the holidays.

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