You're Not The Kind Of Girl Who Settles — Keep Not Settling

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Stay strong.

In today's world, it seems like people get into relationships for the sake of an Instagram. Everybody wants something just so they can brag about having something. 

As a strong, confident woman, you know that's not really your jam anymore. You've been around the dating block, gone through some shit and came out better and smarter on the other side. 

In your mind, you know you're done settling.

But sadly, you're just a person. And people forget. 


So while sleeping with your ex or continuing to text that guy you KNOW you're not really into just because it's something to do may be hella tempting, don't.

Hold on to your values and keep what you want at the forefront of your mind.

Focus your energies not on finding a guy or even doing things that make you more attractive to guys, but on building the kind of life you're proud of. 

The fact of the matter is, is that life is short, and if you keep settling out of boredom or loneliness, pretty soon you won't have time to cultivate the life and relationship you've always wanted. 

So hold out.

Stay strong and keep not settling.

In the long run, you'll be so much happier that you did.




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