Why You Shouldn't Change Yourself Just To Meet Mr. Right [VIDEO]


This is the #1 tip for finding love and making it last!

So, we're pretty sure that we've all been told that if we want to find the perfect guy, we have to be willing to work on ourselves. Even though that is sound advice (when taken in the right context), it can get pretty out of hand. For starters, is there even such thing as being "perfect"? What's even worse is that the common misconception that the only way to find the right person who will want to date you is to completely change who you are can be really hurtful to our love lives because it doesn't really encourage us to put our best feet forward.

When Dr. Karin Anderson mentions why you don't need to change everything just to meet Mr. Right, we couldn't agree more. In fact, if you want to be a better person, it has to be on your own terms. Ladies, forget what everyone else says; you have to be confident in yourself and your ability to win your date over with your personality. Dating shouldn't be about being phony. Instead, you need to focus on being the best version of yourself possible. It's all about putting everything into perspective.

  1. Someone who is the perfect match will be excited to get to know the real you.
  2. The only way to truly see if someone is interested is by being the best you that you can possibly be and just take everything from there.

Honestly, if he's the right guy, he will be attracted to you, not some shadow of who you are trying to be. At the end of the day, love isn't about pretending to be someone you're not.


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