8 steps to having a stress-free DTR conversation that won't make you go crazy.
Determining the relationship (DTR) talks and the women who bring them up often get a bad rep. The women who bring up the subject are often called clingy for doing so, but there is absolutely nothing wrong in seeing if you are on the same page with the person you are seeing. After all, everyone wants a mutual understanding, it's just that no one likes to have the stressful sitdown. Especially because no one wants to be rejected — and that could very well happen when you open the flood of questions of what are we and where is this going?
If you have been casually seeing someone for a while and you get the feeling like it's time to get some answers then take a deep breath before stressing out. There are 8 steps to having a stress-free DTR conversation that won't make you go crazy.
1. Feel out to see if you're both ready.
Do you find yourself wondering what the status of your relationship is? Does it feel natural to think of him as your boyfriend? What about him — is he spending more and more time with you, making plans in advance? Has he bought you a toothbrush to keep at his apartment? (That's when I knew.) Has he introduced you to friends or family? Are people starting to ask you if you're a couple? Do you like the idea of both of you as a couple?
Find out the other steps here: How to Have That Big Relationship Talk Without Freaking Out