The more you try to speak, the more you can't seem to stop arguing. Is it possible that you and your lover will never be able to stop clashing heads or see eye to eye? How can you effectively communicate with your partner without going to bed angry?

Relationship expert John Gray is joined by YourTango experts Bonnie Eaker WeilChristine BaumgartnerTammy Nelson and Susan Campbell to discuss the possible reasons why you and your husband are constantly fighting.

If your morning routine involves exchanging a sideways glance while giving each other the cold shoulder, you should check out what the experts have to say in the video above. Don't let yourselves get caught in the vicious cycle of having the same fight over and over.

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