Ladies: do you know what your lethal weapon is? Do you know what one thing will bring a man to his knees?
I will give you a clue. What part of your natural make up is like a photo that speaks a thousand words? You cannot buy it from the latest and best plastic surgeon. It costs you absolutely nothing, but will attract more men than bears to a beehive. This little gesture will do more to attract and keep the MOYD (man of your dreams!) than the sexiest outfit you could ever wear. Why? One quick flash will light up a room and express how you truly feel. Do you know what it is?
Okay, more clues. It is the law of attraction in constant motion. Most people simply want to be around others who use it. They naturally become curious. "Why is she so happy? It's 100 degrees out here. Either I want what she's on or I want to know where to get a cup of that cool water." People want to be around you, they want to talk to you and they want to know where that joy is coming from in an ever-more-depressing world full of violence and war.
Now, imagine if this little gem were applied to finding and keeping the MOYD? Trust me — every man wants to be around a woman who possesses this type of positive energy. It's contagious and brings success and good fortune to the MOYD. If spotted in a relationship, it means he is doing a great job toward building up your happiness and stability: a natural thing that any good caregiver would desire for the woman of his dreams. If you are on the dating scene, it signals to the potential MOYD that you are already happy with yourself, and are seeking companionship to complement your joy. This is very attractive, as opposed to looking for a man to save you or make you happy — not so attractive.
Do you know what this little God-given attribute is yet? Give up? Okay, I will tell you. It's your smile.
A smile is much like a photo. It has been said that a picture is worth a thousand words, and it can also be said that a smile can speak volumes of positive words about you, without ever being physically voiced. Personally, I run from beautiful women who never smile. It's an automatic relationship red flag. If you rarely smile, it will signal to men that something is internally wrong and that there could be a major psychological issue brewing underneath the surface. Keep reading...
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