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Dating: Are Bad Boys Ever Secretly Good Guys?


YourTango Expert Dr. Pat Love explains why you're attracted to tougher men.

You can't help but fall for the guys who are "all wrong" for you, but you’re ready for a less dramatic and more fulfilling dating life. Is it possible that a bad apple could be your knight in shining armor?

In this video, therapist and YourTango Expert Dr. Pat Love says that there's no real way to tell if a bad boy is a good boy in disguise. "We're all attracted to the bad boys," she says, adding, "It's easier to take a good guy and add excitement than to take a bad guy and add goodness."

Want to learn more? Check out the video above!


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