Do you always find yourself attracted to the wrong guys? Are you wondering if you should go against your dating instincts? If so, help is on the way.

In this video, couples counselor and YourTango Expert Larry Michel explains that people decide who may be a match for them based on chemistry.


"Chemistry is a drug and for people, chemistry is either true or its false," he says. By that, he means that chemistry often leads to false attractions. Instinctually, you feel attracted to this person, but when you get to know them on a more intimate level, you find that they are not a good match for you in the long-term. So how do you know the difference between true compatibility and chemistry?

Want to learn more? Check out the video above!

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