Attention men everywhere, YourTango Expert Esther Perel has a message for you:

"He who looks down there is wasting his time."

Confused? Allow her to explain. If you want to rev things up between-the-sheets with your partner, let your five senses control your sex games. Turn her on with your words, beckon her with your smell and sexplore with taste. Voilà, you've uncovered the secret to mind-blowing sex.

Many people focus on the main sense of pleasure, which is touch. But there are so many things you can do to heighten your other senses as well. You will find that using more senses makes the experience much more pleasurable.

Try using scented candles or oils to accentuate the touch. You can have romantic or mood music to help you make the moment. You can even use food like chocolate or other sweet treats to get an even bigger sense of pleasure.

There are so many ways to keep your sex games interesting. Utilizing all your senses is a great way to increase intimacy and get all the aspects of pleasure at the same time.

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