Attention men everywhere, YourTango Expert Esther Perel has a message for you:

"He who looks down there is wasting his time."

Confused? Allow her to explain. If you want to rev things up between-the-sheets with your partner, let your five senses control foreplay. Turn her on with your words, beckon her with your smell, and sexplore with taste. Voilà, you've uncovered the secret to mind-blowing sex.

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