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Attention, Fellas! Use ALL Five Senses To Get In The Mood [VIDEO]

Sex

You've got the magic touch so it's time you started using it.

Everyone always claims that the key to having mind blowing sex is the elusive G-spot. But if you ask us, there are more creative ways to rev things up between-the-sheets.

Nowadays, we place so much emphasis on physically stimulating your partner down there.  Focusing on one area, when there are so many other erogenous zones that you can explore, will leave her feeling unsatisfied.

So if you want the ultimate payoff, try using your five senses.

It may sound crazy at first but it’s actually super simple! If there’s one thing that we can all agree on, it’s that a little foreplay can go a long way to set the mood. Sex therapist and author Esther Perel raises excellent points on how you can engage your partner on every level.

At 0:11, she even gives us the secret to having a more fulfilling sex life. She says “ So much of sex these days is genitally focused. As if you go to the right spot, [it'll be] exciting [there]. But imagine that for women the best aphrodisiacs are words and Isebella Illiendez says, 'G-spot is between the ears.'"

We couldn’t agree more! It’s a fact that men and women experience sexual arousal differently. In fact, according to Psychology Today, a woman's physical arousal doesn't always correlate with how turned on she is.

After an in depth analysis on female genital responses, sex researchers found that "While men may get turned on by feeling themselves get erect, women do not. However, [studies have found that] even when women received feedback about their level of vaginal engorgement, correlations (between genital and subjective arousal) were low and statistically nonsignificant."

This just proves that it’s going to take a little more than finding her G-spot to keep her sexually satisfied. Do yourself a favor. Stop spending all of your time in one area. Let your senses do the exploring.

You’ll definitely turn your partner on by showing off your expertise. So if you’re really serious about reigniting the sparks in the bedroom, watch this video on replay and head over to Durex for more OMG foreplay ideas.

Trust us, you’ll thank us later.

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