In this video, psychotherapist and YourTango Expert Dr. Hillary Goldsher explains that infertility can be traumatic for a couple. "I think what people don't realize is how devastating this is psychologically," she says. "People are so focused on the medical piece of getting pregnant — the procedures, the medications, the doctor appointments, etc. — that they forget to check in with themselves and see how they're doing psychologically." For couples in this situation, she suggests one thing that can make a difference.