Are you a magnet for bad seeds? Do you always seem to find yourself in dysfunctional relationships, and wonder whether you’ll ever end up in a healthy one?

In this video, psychologist, relationship coach, sex therapist and YourTango Expert Dr. Bruce Derman explains why you may be attracting the wrong guys over and over again. He suggests you begin by owning the current dating pattern you're in. “The bad apple dating plan that you’re in is not a mistake,” assures Dr. Derman.

Want to learn what you should do about your dating plan? Check out the video above.

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