How Can I Tell If I'm Wasting My Time?


Dating is only a waste of time if you allow it to be.

Relationship coach Jasbina Ahluwalia is here to tackle one of the most popular relationship questions that women and men ask: "How can I tell if he/she is worth pursuing?" Time is valuable, therefore you must spend it wisely. We often chase the wrong person and end up with nothing but wasted effort and time.

You may not be able to ensure that the person you are seeing is worth your time, but you can make sure your time is well spent. All you have to do is change your perspective. Jasbina Ahluwalia insists that the best way to do this is to make something out of the date experience instead of solely focusing on your date. Take note of your surroundings and learn something from your date that you didn't know previously. If the date goes awry, considering the date as a learning experience is a 100% gurantee that your time wasn't wasted. 

Check out the video above for more tips on how to make sure that he or she really is the one.


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