Are you being pursued by an ex? Wondering whether his intentions are true? If so, help is on the way.
In this video, therapist, relationship coach and YourTango Expert Julie Orlov explains that it can be tempting to fill the void of a breakup with someone you once loved. However, she warns, "sometimes an ex may have a hidden agenda that he or she is not really aware of."
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So, how can you tell the difference between an honest attempt at reconciliation and one that's fleeting? "First," advises Julie, "ask your ex what is driving him to get back together again. Find out as much as you can about his true motivations."
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