Changed My Life


“I first contacted Christian when the guy I was dating started to pull away. After listening to my story, Christian gave me a whole new approach to the situation. He told me that this guy was “renting the girlfriend” by acting like my boyfriend when he wanted and then disappearing when he was “busy”, that I should stop being so available / nice to him and that I should let him pursue me. I was pretty impressed by Christian’s approach as it totally made sense and none of my friends or even myself thought about that earlier.

Then, a few months later, I contacted Christian again to do the SPARK package on 30 days. We focused on ATTRACT as my goals for this journey were to become more approachable and to be able to go talk and flirt with any guy I would be interested in. On the first session, Christian gave me a set of tools to develop and use my feminine energy to attract men. We also talk about the kind of guy I want and where I could find him. Then we went together in public places so I could practice on strangers. This definitely gave me more confidence to go talk to guys. I kept practicing talking to strangers in between the sessions and after only 10 days I thought “Christian changed my life!”: guys were coming to talk directly to me and not to my friends, I was flirting with men and getting some numbers and even my best friend was amazed about how more confident and more approachable I became in only a few weeks!


This month of coaching with Christian has been a great experience and I’m definitely going to keep using what I’ve learned in order to find the guy I want.”

Adeline B., San Francisco

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