One of the benefits of being a woman is a keen sense of intuition. However, when it comes to dating, is it okay to rely on your gut instinct about a man, even if your sense is he's not relationship material after talking to him for under an hour? In this video, Dating Coach, Matchmaker and YourTango Expert Jasbina Ahluwalia says that in order to determine whether you're too quick to judge the guys you date, you should consider three things. Is Past Dating Experience Relevant?
First, how well do you think a guy knows you after a first date? After all, really getting to know someone takes time. This implies that you cannot truly judge someone on a first date. We are like onions; we have a lot of layers. Each layer tells us something new about us. Second, Jasbina says, "instant chemistry is not always the best indication of long term compatibility." Instant chemistry can be misleading at times. Some men are the player type, they know women very well. They know exactly what to say and do to make woman like them, so the chemistry you are feeling might not be real.
Want to know the third thing Jasbina wants you to think about? Check out the video and find out.