After a breakup or divorce, it's exciting to think of starting a new relationship with a blank slate. The next person you date won't be aware of the mistakes you've made in the past. However, that doesn't mean these problems can't come up again. So, how do you ensure you don't repeat any harmful relationship patterns? 10 Unhealthy Relationship Patterns (And How To Break Them!)
In this video, Author, Love Coach and YourTango Expert Amy Spencer helps a reader who doesn't want to repeat the same mistakes that she made in her failed marriage. To prevent this from happening, Amy suggests she make a list of feelings (not physical qualities) she wants to experience with someone new. Learn why this list will draw her towards a more healthy relationship and may eliminate the possibility of problems resurfacing by watching the video above.
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