Grouper: Group Dating To Get You Offline And Out On The Town


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Why meet one guy for a drink when you can meet three? This site's making dating a friendly affair.

It's a Thursday night. I'm at a super trendy bar in downtown Manhattan waiting for my two single girl friends to arrive so we can have a drink with three single guys we've never met or seen before. This can totally blow up in my face, but I've asked my friends to just go with the flow for the sake of trying something new – something called Grouper.

It's a simple yet genius idea that you're going to wish you had thought of, but two Yale grads, Jerry Guo, 23, and Michael Waxman, 24, beat you to the punch. Launched in June 2011, Grouper is an online social club (currently only in New York City) whose goal is to get you offline as quick and easily as possible and onto a great night out on the town with people you may have never met before. You can use it to find your next date or just to expand your social circle – a Grouper is whatever you make it. Win $550 Worth Of Luxury Goods From Henri Bendel!


"We see this as a giant social experiment and we want to keep it fun," says co-founder Jerry Guo. "We started it with the motivation of bringing together people who we think should meet, and hopefully they will hit it off."

Here's how it works: First, you sign up for free at Grouper (, which allows the matchmakers at the site to access your Facebook page (this is how they learn all about you, your preferences, where you like to hang out, etc.). Once you're accepted (Yes, there's a waitlist) and matched with a compatible person, Grouper will give you a date, time and a reserved table at a hot location in the city (usually a trendy speakeasy or lounge). You bring two friends, your match brings two friends, and for $20 a head, you get your first round of drinks on the house and a night full of endless possibilities. 6 Hot Celebrities Who Have Tried Online Dating

Unlike other dating or social websites, there is no physical Grouper "site," you don't have a profile, and there's no way to check out your match and his friends before you meet them in person. So, how do Guo and his team match you up? "It's kind of our secret sauce," he explains. "It's the combination of a computer plus a human. We use filters such as similarities in age, educational background, and level of attractiveness, but at the end of the day, our community managers make the call." 

Though I admit, when my girl friends and I first met our Grouper guys, we agreed we wouldn't have been interested in them if we had just seen them out at a bar. But halfway into our first round of drinks, we were amazed at how smart, funny, and interesting they turned out to be! It was an unexpectedly awesome night, and this was exactly Guo and Waxman's intention.

"We're not psychics, we're not matchmakers, we're not here to help you find your next girlfriend or boyfriend," says Guo. "At the end of the night, if you don't hit it off, you're still out with your friends, and we took care of the headache of planning everything."

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