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Hi! Well, here's my "little" story... in the scheme of things, not a real Great big thing, but I do think it indicates the work with you was magically effective!

I was cleaning out my work purse, at work (on an airplane) and came upon a bunch of papers folded up. I opened to see what it was, and recalled that a while back (monthes for sure-haven't cleaned out the old work bag lately!) I had written these things...
things that I suppose I felt "happened to me' or events in my past that colored why I was where I was today... things like wounding moments, you know.

I guess it really doesn't matter why I wrote it, but I just noticed, that while I was looking at it that moment, instead of getting into it, and reliving, and thinking "yeah" - no wonder I'________ (fill in the blank), it just was nothing. Absolutely no emotion, no connection really, just words on paper that I KNEW I no longer needed.

I almost didn't even recognize the person, or just felt that the attachment to those memories is absolutely no longer needed or even real.

Just like the "Poison inoculation" to get rid of something, I dropped the package in the airplane garbage, off to be incinerated.

So, that's it. I felt it was a breakthrough, really. That and those explanations of myself are no longer needed! I believe it's because of the work we did.

I want to stay excited about it all!!~
Meanwhile, thank you Thank you!
All my best!
Suzy
 

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