The Biggest Signs He Loves You (Even If He Never Says It) [VIDEO]

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Have you ever been so in love with someone that just being around him was enough to make you smile? From the way he rubs your feet after a long day at work to how he knows exactly what to say to make you feel better, there is seriously no greater feeling in the world than finding someone who just gets you—Especially someone who makes you want to shout "I love you!" like a maniac in the streets.

 

But the scary part is that even though you know that you want to spend the rest of your life with your partner, trying to figure out whether HE feels the same is super tricky (not to mention incredibly frustrating)!

Are there any signs that'll help you figure out if he loves you?

Being in love is nerve-racking enough without all of the miscommunication that happens in relationships. Yes, love and intimacy are all about making sure that everyone is on the same page. But sometimes, our significant others are way too hard to read. It's almost as if the closer we become, the more it bothers us that we haven't shared those magic three words yet.

How am I supposed to handle all of the butterflies I get whenever I'm around him if I can't even figure out whether he feels them too?

Because I really needed to know, I asked our love experts for ways to know when someone really loves you. Even though it may not seem like it at first, there actually ARE tell-tale signs that prove your partner adores and cares for you.

Here's a hint: Watch what he does! All of the little things he does when you're not looking pretty much scratch the surface of how he really feels. He doesn't have to explicitly say "I Love You" for you to feel it. You just will.

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How do I know if he loves me? This is the question that I always giggle at a little bit when I hear. The bottom line with two people and their love is that they make it abundantly clear.

He should first tell you that he loves you, but really actions speak louder than words.

When he asks you what do you need before he tells you sometimes when he needs..

He should show you in meaningful ways he's trying to make you happy and to please you.

When he tries to please you when he does for you even if it's not important for him.

It’'s not about the obvious tried gestures like sending flowers aren't bringing chocolate but it's in the details too.

The act itself of doing for the other even when it's actually something that we would never do for ourselves that generosity is essential to know.

If he knows that you're afraid of heights he’ll book a hotel room on the ground floor. If he knows you're allergic to seafood he takes you to a steak restaurant. These are the little things that he does every single day to try to make you happy.

But the question I will also ask is how much do you need constant affirmation and confirmation that he does love you. Will he say how come you don't know and show you in multiple ways and you will still say not enough because there's a part of me that doesn't really believe that I am lovable or that one could love me?

Simply from the fact that this is a question tells me that there is a small thought or perhaps even a large thought that he doesn't. If you don’t clearly feel as if you were being loved and there's a good chance that you might not be.

You know that a person loves you by the level of investment, care, attention, support, interest that the other person shows you.

We all communicate our love in certain ways but the bottom line is when we love, we do communicate.

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