10 Signs You're Just Friends


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Do you fall for your friends? How to confirm that you're still "just friends."

This Love Buzzer has a bad habit of repeatedly falling for the same type of guy... and then promptly sliding into the Friend Zone, where he becomes my bud instead of my boyfriend. Such behavior has obviously made for a good amount of angst, and extreme amounts of unrequited love. How can you tell if you're going down that same, unpleasant path?

1. You always initiate. The time you spend together is the stuff movie montages are made of, filled with goofball antics, laughter and moments of heart-pounding verbal intimacy. Though perhaps your heart is the only one pounding. If you're always the one to pick up the phone, chances are he's not quite as eager to see you as you are to see him.


2. When he does initiate, he brings a backup (or five). Bereft over the fact that you never get that much-desired quality alone time together? If he's only inviting you out on group outings, it may be that he sees you as one of the guys. This can be flattering, but he doesn't generally cuddle with his guy friends after spending the day together. Is It A Date Or Are We Just Friends?

3. He calls you buddy. Or bro. Or your last name, circa high school. Or something else that is distinctly unfeminine, and a glaring reminder that he does not see you as a sexual being.

4. He talks about his other conquests with you. Which is so heart-shatteringly painful that it takes all you have not to break down in tears in front of him. Instead, you swallow your pain and pretend to be totally fine with rating the sex appeal of various females passersby—thereby solidifying even further your status as his "bro." His Wandering Eye. What Does It Mean?

5. He frantically attempts to set you up with men that aren't him. He's no dummy. On some level, he knows you dig him. And he feels terrible that he doesn't feel the same way. This is why he's suddenly so determined to find you another guy with whom you can share everlasting love. No, he's not testing your loyalty. He's trying to ease his guilt.

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