picture of a woman in a bikini and heels.
picture of a woman in a bath towel.
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picture of cleavage.
picture of cleavage and a tattoo.
picture of a man holding a newborn baby.
picture of man with arm around elderly mother.
picture of man kissing a litter of puppies.
picking up on a theme. I’ve noticed a lot of women who seem to think that the
way to a man’s heart is through his groin, so to speak. Conversely, men
sometimes try way too hard to prove they’re nice guys.
if you’re looking for long term, cleavage is the wrong message. It says you’re
looking for sex. I mean, seriously, you’re showing cleavage. Do you really
think a man’s first thought will be “Yippee, a woman with heart”? Come on. Go onto google images and do a search for “heart” then do a
search for “cleavage” – same region but vastly very different body parts.
in your bath towel don’t suggest long term either. Personally, when I see those
pictures, I can’t help but wonder if the woman is dirty and about to shower, or
if she’s freshly-scrubbed. But that’s how my brain works. A man’s brain is
different. However, he doesn’t think “there’s a woman with heart under that
towel” any more than I do. He thinks “there’s woman who’s naked under that
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trying to be mean. I’m just trying to suggest that you give yourself a shake.