1. Learn to submit to a man who you intend on being in a relationship with. If he values you, he will respect your input, but ultimately he will have the final say. This is because he bears the responsibility for the relationship.
2. Put out: A really great way to lose a man is to withhold sex. Lots of girls like to hold sex over a man's head as relationship leverage. That will work with lesser men who have zero manhood. But attractive men have OPTIONS. They don't need to be held hostage by ONE vagina when there are millions of vaginas in the world.
Your man's penis is as valuable to him as your emotions are to you-- if you take care of it, he will take care of you. If you neglect it, he will look for a woman who can get the job done right.
3. Be open to meeting men: There are lots of men around. But women don't understand the word: OPPORTUNITY. Instead, women like to plan. They like to have every detail of their lives mapped out ahead of time. This stems from a childish impulse to control everything and provides women with a false sense of security. This is especially detrimental to relationships since women are not designed to exercise such control. As a result, women shoot themselves in the foot by neglecting the many opportunities they have to meet men.
The worst thing you can do is narrow your meeting opportunities down to bars and clubs. Be ready for romance in the supermarket aisle, the book store, blockbuster, saying hello on the beach or at a cross walk.
Women place too much emphasis on Disney fairytales about how to meet a man properly. This only undermines the myraid opportunities they have. Often all it requires is a pleasant smile and a willingness to explore a friendly invitation to conversation.
If a man initiates a conversation with you, 9 times out of 10, he's attracted to you. Take that opporunity to get to know him rather than dismiss him as a stranger. Women often ruin their own romantic lives by not allowing themselves to experience romantic connections outside of pre-designated social areas like bars and clubs.
Worry less about your vanity and more about your opportunity; women often make the mistake of wondering what other people will think of their romantic partners rather than decidicing for themselves whether they are interested or not. Become an adult. Learn to make your own decisions. It sure beats lonely night on the couch with your 15 cats or a night with the vibrator.
4. If you believe that men of high status are much more worthy of dating than men of low status, you're a hooker because you've attached a price tag to yourself. And hookers usually end up getting suckered in the end.
Telling a woman to date for quality instead of status is like telling a child to eat healthy food instead of candy; most will end up learning the hard way. But you can avoid this by learning how to date like an adult.
Forget about a man's means; such things can be faked. I should know. I've done it many times in order to sleep with hot women. If you want to meet a great guy, you have to become a great girl. This means you'll have to drop your shallow financial/social considerations and instead concentrate on a man's character, on his personality. There's a difference between liking someone for how they make you feel vs. liking someone for who they are.