Unhappy and confused

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I find myself increasingly unhappy in my marriage. My husband is a sweet guy and I have no doubt that he loves me and I love him. However there are just so many ways we do not "click." In the years we've been together was it always this way you may ask and the answer is yes and no. I have always been and extrovert while he is a staunch introvert. I need to get out an about while he is content to sit at home. Once upon a time we use to compromise, maybe out together Friday and stay in on Saturday. 

I admit to getting into this with blinders on. It didn't bother me in the beginning to be the "ringmaster." You know, the one that planned the activities, daily routines etc. But now it is an issue, and one I never foresaw no matter how obvious it now seems. He never takes the lead in anything. The ball is forever in my court be it where we go for dinner or in the bedroom and I am sick of it.

I have expressed this in several different ways and he even acknowledged that he realized this but over a year has gone by with no change. So at this point you can imagine that everything is suffering in a sense. I am lost as to what to do. Any advice?