Love Bytes: 10 must-click love and relationship links.

This week, Gossip Girl's third season premiered. Do you play games to keep your relationship alive? Blair and Chuck do. [TrèsSugar]

Whitney spilled all this week about her tumultuous relationship with Bobby Brown...Or did she? [Cosmopolitan]

Patrick Swayze and Lisa Niemi survived 34 years of blissful marriage. How does one do it? DivineCaroline discusses how to sleep with the same man for over 30 years and not get tired of it. [DivineCaroline]

Have a hot date this weekend? Guys, don't mess it up by wearing the wrong thing. [marieclaire]

September 19 is international Talk Like a Pirate Day. Go out, drink some grog (pirate for liquor) and test out these pirate pick-up lines. [Huliq]

Overweight from emotional eating? In this week's premiere of The Biggest Loser, we met Abby Rike who had turned to food to cope with losing her husband and and kids in a 2006 car crash. [momlogic]

What is John Gosselin like in bed? His nanny, Stephanie Santoro tells all. [HuffPo]

Husband or boyfriend lose his job? Here are 10 things NOT to say. [lemondrop]

Are men turned on to their pregnant mates? The folks at HOTmilk, a lingerie company in New Zealand, are selling maternity wear to make sure they are! [Asylum]

Are later marriages unhappy marriages? Michael Gerson believes so. [doubleX]