By stella bella — Written on Aug 24, 2009
“Propensity for Submission”
From time to time, I will come across a posting that will just blow me away. A man will be so articulate about what he is looking for that I have to take a moment and appreciate his clarity. I would like to share with my dear readers the following posting on Craig’s list:
“I'll make this clear and simple. I am looking for a woman who likes being told what to do and put in her place 24/7.
I desire a female who is comfortable with her submissive and subservient desires, a woman who knows her place and enjoys being told what to do by her Man. I am not interested in your feminist views, or any rhetoric from your MTV/Real World "liberated" lifestyle. I am not looking to MAKE a submissive female. You must already know you are submissive, and that Male Dominance is the correct lifestyle for you. I prefer an insecure, emotionally needy, weak, docile female. You know who you are and what you need. I will tell you what to do, what to wear, and how to act.
That being said, I am very affectionate and loving to my girl, I just prefer that kind of lifestyle dynamic. I am looking for LTR, hopefully marriage down the road. I am very amorous, romantic, and affectionate.
Send a pic with your message, or I won't reply. Yes, I have a pic and will be more than happy to share it. Physical attributes are secondary to me, a woman's propensity for submission is of primary importance. I enjoy a woman who has curves and may be on the thicker side, but this is not a requirement.
I am not interested in anyone under 23.
I am very loving, but I expect a docile and willing female, who has come to terms with her own desires and accepts Male dominance as the correct lifestyle for her; I do not want a woman who is career driven- her career will be serving and servicing me.
I don't negotiate. If you're going to be my girl, I make this as clear as possible, you won't be making many decisions on your own. You won't be out clubbing with your friends. You'll be home on your knees, on a tight leash, taking care of your Man and serving me as I see fit.”
I cannot get through this without a good giggle. I can understand the whole obedient lover role on occasion, but 24/7? Are there women like that? Really? I am not here to judge, but I’m just saying…
In the past, I have had lovers that were demanding and a playfully rough. They told me what to do and how to do it – And to my surprise, it WAS a turn on. Being a strong woman, who makes big decisions in her career and for her children is an everyday necessity. In the bedroom, it can be completely un-burdening to go brainless and become someone else’s slave lover. But this Alpha man takes it to an everyday minute-by-minute lifestyle.
I have a hard time imagining that any woman would want to be brainless anywhere outside the bedroom, TV room or the bathtub. I highlighted the part that offended me outright, but it was not being able to pick out my own fashions that was the deal killer for me! Can she never wear sexy heels? What would he have his girlfriend wear? He as much as said a dog collar or choke chain. How is she allowed to dress for the grocery store? Does she have to look good or does he dress her down and make her wear sweats with no make up? I am curious? I hope Dominant Man reads this and satisfies our curiosity by writing us back.