I am six months pregnant and though both my guys LOVE a pregnant partner I am sometimes just too tired and achy to want to have full on sex. Both guys appreciate me honestly telling them that I'm not feeling all that great and they will change their approach significantly to accommodate that. They might suggest a nice foot rub or run me a bath which can lead to me finding just a bit more energy for a great sexual encounter. They also slow down and allow me time to get in the mood if I ask which makes them feel VERY studly when I am able to achieve orgasm dispite my misgivings. Other times it allows them to have some intimate time with me where they might "get off" and then we can fall asleep feeling all warm and fuzzy.

Faking would just ruin the trust that's there and give all the wrong messages...afterall their pleasure is equally important as mine. Sometimes they will be drop dead tired and still bring me worlds of pleasure...it's just a give and take. I do sympathize with guys though, when I have a massively wonderful orgasm and my partner is fine with that....makes me feel somewhat guilty but they both explained that sometimes it's enough to watch me take pleasure in what they are doing.