Advice: "He Wants To Watch Me With Another Man!"
Be prepared for this tricky situation.
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Discussion
My wife and I use to own a "Swing Club" . We have watched and studied many that enjoy or wanted to enjoy this fancy. Many couples discuss this when they arrive and the rest will discuss this with us as time goes on.What we have found is that some men and some wifes can handle the situation and there are some that can not. If the man forces the situation before they both can agree on it then things can go wrong real fast.
There has been times that one or the other can not accept watching their partner enjoying having sex with another. At first it seemed like a nice fancy but when so see it happening ....well, now they change their mind. My wife and I discuss this with each one alone before their first party. There needs to be a lot of trust and love between the couple as well as a frank discussion.
I personally enjoy holding my wife of over 15 years in my arms while we enjoy the company of a single or a couple.
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