Relationship In Limbo? Use The Breakup Formula
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"My boyfriend is hot then cold towards me. I care about him, but I don't know if the relationship is worth the effort. Should we stay together or break up?" -Mary, Massachusetts
Discussion
This is exactly what a psychologist writes a blog about on the Psychology Today website. Her blog is called Love in Limbo and here's a post about the same situation that gives you advice on what to do about it and why: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/love-in-limbo/200906/youre-just-not-...
HI I AM SHERRY:
I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT SEEMS QUITE SIMILIAR TO YOURS. I HAVE A BOYFRIEND I TRULY LOVE BUT HE HAVE SOME REAL FUNNY WAYS. NOT TO BRAG BUT I AM NOT A BAD CATCH. HE SEEMS TO BE ASHAMED OF ME BECAUSE OF HIS POSITION & WHAT OTHERS MIGHT THINK. (OPINIONS) HOWEVER, I COULD CARE LESS. I KNOW THE RELATIONSHIP IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR BUT SOMETIMES I JUST GET TIRED. I DON'T BELIEVE THAT I AM TO CHASE THIS MAN FOR HIM TO BE MY "BOO". SO WHAT DO I DO IN A CASE LIKE THIS? I REALLY CARE A GREAT DEAL FOR HIM. SHOULD I CONTINUE TO FIGHT FOR THE RELATIONSHIP OR DO I MOVE ON TO THE NEXT LEVEL. I LIKE FOR THE MAN TO CHASE ME BECAUSE THATS THE WAY GOD DESIGNED IT TO BE. I DO NOT BELIEVE THAT I AM SUPPOSE TO KISS BUTT". HELP A SISTA OUT. "PLEASE".
SINCERLY,
SHERRY MCCREA
