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What's Your...DNA?

Genetic matching meets online dating for the next generation of compatibility.

Can DNA predict that elusive quality in the love equation known as "spark"? According to Tamara Brown, founder of the website GenePartner.com, it can, reports Sally McGrane for Time magazine. The Switzerland-based company makes love connections based on genes, or one particular family of genes known as human leukocyte antigens (HLAs).

Launched last summer, GenePartner is built on the idea that "opposites attract". According to the GenePartner website, a study by a University of Bern professor named Wedekind inspired the company's founders.

When female study participants were asked to take a whiff of smelly T-shirts worn by various men for three days straight and select the most attractive, Wedekind found that the part of DNA that codes for HLA molecules was chosen from men whose HLAs differed from the women's own. That is to say, people with one set of genes are attracted to those with a different set of genes.

The company based its formula for genetic compatibility on the questionnaire results of 270 long-term couples who had contributed genetic data to GenePartner, reports McGrane. The company is offering the biological piece of the matchmaking puzzle to matchmakers and websites already established in pairing up singles using other non-biological factors (location, hobbies). Already, one Internet dating site has hopped on board. Sense2Love.com plans to include genetic matching by summer's end.

What about those in the "opposites don't attract" camp? One such non-believer cited in the article remains unconvinced that the chemistry enigma has been solved. He adds that HLA's role in mate selection is not yet fully known or understood.Matchmaking 2.0

Curious? For $99, anyone can order a GenePartner test. Use it to take a saliva sample and then mail it overseas. Wait two weeks for your GenePartner ID—and voila—the GenePartner database is your oyster. The company hopes that, in time, singles may be able to tote their DNA profiles with them as they flit from one online dating site to the next. This will take online dating to an entirely new level. If the concept takes off, that is. Can eHarmony compete? We're thinking we may be in for a whole new set of lovey-dovey TV commercials very soon.

Readers, what do you think about the idea of manufactured chemistry? Would you try a genetic matching service?

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LordCAG Single built like a rock
Posted October 18, 2009

pheromones effect women more then men because men track with their eyes being hunters.

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dan Taken
Posted July 23, 2009

The question about DNA Dating that bothers me most is what happens to my genetically identity at the end of the day - especially when we are talking about such a dubious company like Genepartner.

There are a few things fishy about Genepartner:
- The so called “Swiss Institute for Behavioural Genetics” (www.sibeg.org) – where Genepartner’s research studies are supposed to be done – belongs to the former Marketing Manager of Genepartner Michael von Arx (e.g. check www.sibeg.org at http://whois.domaintools.com)?! However, if you google the institute it hardly doesn’t exist besides Geneparnter related sites. Moreover, Websheep (www.websheep.com), the company that programmed Genepartner’s website also programmed sibeg.

- Another thing that makes me suspicious: Nobody ever saw any data of Genepartner’s research studies (Check TimesOnline article from May 24, 2009, http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/ar...).

So, why should we hand our genetically identity out to such a dubious company?!

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Qverb Taken Rugburns, sarcasm, giggling, beautiful
Posted June 29, 2009

I don't doubt that there is some merit to this, but it just seems to take away from an individuals growth from outer stimuli...ie, relationships between family and friends, environmental impacts (as in the social environment for where you were raised or grew up), and our own abilities to choose what we want for ourselves and work towards that goal. So much of that seems, to me, beyond the ability of science to explain in these terms.

Perhaps I am attracted to women that are opposites of me chemically as the research suggests, but my attraction towards them tends to be solidified by who they are as a person based on their history, the decisions they've made, and the life they actively choose to live. Perhaps its just that those are the traits that endear us to on another but that chemical responses bring us together in the first place?

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BookMama Married Happily Married
Posted June 29, 2009

I doubt finding someone with a complimentary immune system would ever be enough. Then you'd want to know their values and goals in life and a few other biggies.

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BookMama Married Happily Married
Posted June 29, 2009

Why not? So long as you checked that they're using good science before you fork over $100.

I want a company that tests for the "infidelity gene," or as Gene Weingarten put it the "jackass gene."

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/09/080902161213.htm

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2008/10/31/AR200810...

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