Well I decided to write this to say thank you to those who took time out of their busy lives to read my question and give me advice in regards to my problem. I've read and re-read everyones suggestions and I'm going to just try to live my life for me from now on and not anyone else. Not going to be easy but I will try to take it day by day.
Demi Lovato is dating Wilmer Valderama, who played Fez on That 70s Show and is also the worst and a monster and super older than her. He's known for dating actresses much younger than he is (think "barely legal" status), so poor Demi might only have a month or two left before she ages out of the game.