Ive been "seeing" this guy for a year now, yet he says we still arent dating. We do everything a noraml couple does, dinners, going out, spending the nite, going on vacations. But he wont say we are dating, he still calls me his friend. And it hurts to hear that cause i am so in love with this man and he knows it, but i get almost no feelings in return. And i know he cares but i dont think he knows how to show it, hes very hard and cold hearted. We are so good for each other i just wish he would realize what he has in front of him before i get sick of waiting around. Im really torn at this point. Should i continue to wait for him to realize the situation? Or make one of the hardest decisions and let him go?
Love is a drug ... in a way. Many studies have found that a bad breakup can have similar effects that withdrawling from cocaine has.
All I know is this: I sure wouldn't want to feel the pain of an actual drug addict overcoming their addiction — sounds excruciatingly painful, in the worst way.
Bringing us to the next point...