Ive been "seeing" this guy for a year now, yet he says we still arent dating. We do everything a noraml couple does, dinners, going out, spending the nite, going on vacations. But he wont say we are dating, he still calls me his friend. And it hurts to hear that cause i am so in love with this man and he knows it, but i get almost no feelings in return. And i know he cares but i dont think he knows how to show it, hes very hard and cold hearted. We are so good for each other i just wish he would realize what he has in front of him before i get sick of waiting around. Im really torn at this point. Should i continue to wait for him to realize the situation? Or make one of the hardest decisions and let him go?
"Over drinks at a bar my date revealed many interesting details about himself. He used to live on 'the streets.' He claimed to have 'beat Spina Bifida.' He had had a fiancé in Japan who was open to him dating women while he was in the States. After all those amazing revelations I let him know our relationship would not be romantic. As we walked out of the bar he appeared to be suffering from some sort of stomach cramp. He told me he suffered from severe IBS and desperately needed a private bathroom. I have family members who suffer from Crohn's disease so I felt very sympathetic to his situation. I offered to let him use the bathroom in my apartment. After he had finished using the bathroom, he says, 'I know you said we could just be friends and that's fine. But, I was wondering if I could just watch you pee before I leave. I only want to watch.' P.S. — I did not let him watch me pee." -Miranda, 33